Bunny
In an ideal world, you're right. But you know what I'm going to say...so I won't

. Of course you're right...and are very representative of an ever decreasing minority these days. Here in the UK, 30% of women who attended night clubs 35 years ago were not Bi-sexual. That's is in complete contrast to today's number; 30% are!
I've attempted to combine statistical divorce rates with a news papers research in order to give some air to a possible theory. I've also introduced the decline is our christian faith as having a direct impact on our moral values. Strong religious faith equals strong morals. Our christian faith has nose dived into the conrete...so have our morals and values. You just happen to be one of the few yet to give in

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Possessing few morals, gives way to many things. Of which girls today are rapidly re-addressing previous boundaries. These are being totally redrawn in ways that would have been totally unacceptable 35 years ago. Then, there was a difference between men and women and the rolls they played in family. Now there increasing exists and almost unisex 'Gap' culture of approaching relationships. For many it's no longer a case of being virtueous and pure...quite the opposite. By the time most couples marry these days, they will have explored a number of sexual partners and full time relationships/marriages before.
We can't ignore the additional stress's modern day relationships place upon the individual. I believe that what most women you say aspire to...don't after a period of time! I say that women deep down no longer need the security of a man in order to live their lives. I say that this is one of the main factors for women departing a marriage. I say that mostly they want to explore their lives free from pre ordained thoughts and conformity to what once was, but is no longer.
I say that women are evolving, whilst men are having to adapt! Men are slow to adapt, insecure and imature generally. Women are frightened by their men folks anger and often inability to adapt! When a women wants to exit a relationship for whatever reason, it's the male ego that she most fears from. Men are generally, absolutely crap at handling rejection! A lot of the stuff I've read on here actually refer to mens inability to accept change. This then leads to their denial and subsequent torture of their ex partner for dumping their egos.
I've referred to two relationship in my posting on here. One turned out to be with a Bi girl. Years later, I met another girl who it turned out, had a terrible childhood. Like so many things, it's only when you've got to know the person really well, when the truth starts to emerge

! The first girl was just a user. The second...well that's a sad and ongoing situation.
I've learned a lot over the years and strangely enough, I've learned to know me better. Oh yes I've focused out and onto others, but over time, I slowly started to take a good, long, hard look at myself! Some good, some not so. Where I've really grown as a person though, is in being less judgemental of others. Less biggotted and intollerent and much more open in my view.
I was programmed as a child to believe in things that whilst very moralistic....were way too narrow in practice. In dumping what I was brainwashed to accept, my eyes now see the full spectrum of colours rather than the narrow shafts of intollerance.
Onyx