Author Topic: Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....  (Read 1293 times)

Gabben

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Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....
« on: June 09, 2008, 09:53:32 PM »
This thread is me setting a limit for myself as I choose to get involved with the conflict thread...my choice.

One of the things that I have been working on this past year is anger, hostility as well as my hatred.

My heart was full of old victim anger and a victim mentality. But, I have grown, I can see it and that is all that matters. However, today I saw myself slip again and allow myself to get drawn into battle that was pointless and wrong. I'm not saying that my views were wrong I am just saying that is was wrong for me to battle.

Regardless of whatever my perceptions are I do not need to point things out...that is my self-defeating pattern that I am trying to break.

People are people - I refuse to hate.

Leah - I love you.
Ami - I love you.
Bill - I love you.
Lighter - I love you.
Izzy - I love you.


There.............. love is my choice and you can all think whatever you want about me, but love feels good and no one has to fit a mold for me to love them. People do not even have to like me, or care about me, they can disagree with me and they can think I am wrong... I still chose to love them. I can love because I want to...I can even love my enemies - now that is freedom!

Peace,
Lise

« Last Edit: June 09, 2008, 10:01:41 PM by Gabben »

Certain Hope

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Re: Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....
« Reply #1 on: June 09, 2008, 10:24:00 PM »
((((((((Lise))))))))  just thinking that you must be exhausted.

I admire your strength of mind and purpose and your goals, too.

Mostly I'm just thankful that we're able to live and learn.

Love,
Carolyn

Ami

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Re: Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....
« Reply #2 on: June 09, 2008, 10:53:13 PM »
Lise
 To me, you are a precious person, a beautiful person, sensitive, intelligent, insightful. I will think that b/c I do.    Love    Ami
 
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

wiltay

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Re: Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....
« Reply #3 on: June 09, 2008, 11:39:58 PM »
Ive always loved and respected you, Lise.  I still do.

Bill

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Re: Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....
« Reply #4 on: June 10, 2008, 11:07:03 AM »
I am glad I was not a part of that conflict.  Love to everyone of you special, interesting, complex, healing, validated, have a voice people!!
Kelly

"The Best Way Out is Through........and try laughing at yourself"