Leaving the conflict behind and moving on....

[Gabben]

This thread is me setting a limit for myself as I choose to get involved with the conflict thread...my choice.

One of the things that I have been working on this past year is anger, hostility as well as my hatred.

My heart was full of old victim anger and a victim mentality. But, I have grown, I can see it and that is all that matters. However, today I saw myself slip again and allow myself to get drawn into battle that was pointless and wrong. I'm not saying that my views were wrong I am just saying that is was wrong for me to battle.

Regardless of whatever my perceptions are I do not need to point things out...that is my self-defeating pattern that I am trying to break.

People are people - I refuse to hate.

Leah - I love you.
Ami - I love you.
Bill - I love you.
Lighter - I love you.
Izzy - I love you.


There.............. love is my choice and you can all think whatever you want about me, but love feels good and no one has to fit a mold for me to love them. People do not even have to like me, or care about me, they can disagree with me and they can think I am wrong... I still chose to love them. I can love because I want to...I can even love my enemies - now that is freedom!

Peace,
Lise

[Certain Hope]

((((((((Lise))))))))  just thinking that you must be exhausted.

I admire your strength of mind and purpose and your goals, too.

Mostly I'm just thankful that we're able to live and learn.

Love,
Carolyn

[Ami]

Lise
 To me, you are a precious person, a beautiful person, sensitive, intelligent, insightful. I will think that b/c I do.    Love    Ami
 

[wiltay]

Ive always loved and respected you, Lise.  I still do.

Bill

[Overcomer]

I am glad I was not a part of that conflict.  Love to everyone of you special, interesting, complex, healing, validated, have a voice people!!