Ami

[CB123]

Hi Ami,

I see by your posts on the Bullying on the Board thread that you are wondering why no one on the Healthy Community thread is responding to your thread.

I can't speak for others, but I am just plain through with the whole conflict.  Someone has to have the last word, and if you want it you've got it.

I was hoping that the threads that are perpetuating the conflict would slide off the first page and allow us to return to the regular business of the board--it seems like everything that can be said, has been said.  There are people here that have other things they want to discuss.  I'm short on time and I just don't want to devote any more energy to the situation. 

I'm not going NC with anyone.  I dont feel like I need to--if I feel that someone is baiting me, I will just not respond.  And you have the same option.

CB

[Ami]

If s/one wanted to go through your recent posts to ME, there would be many references to me being a "fallen" women etc. I really don't appreciate that as you have not walked in my shoes and probably don't want to.
 Anyway, I don't appreciate names,such as that, as I am sure YOU would not ,either. Last word !       Ami

[CB123]

Ami,

If you will post a link to the place where I posted to you and called you a "fallen woman", you will receive my heartfelt apology AND I will give you the last word. 

CB

[Ami]

It was on Bill's troll thread which Dr G erased ,but ,believe me, those references were there. I would accept an apology,as graciously as I could ,if you were to offer it.     Ami

[Izzy_*now*]

Ami...

I saw no such post.....describing you as a fallen woman... maybe it was a dream of yours!

there would be many references to me being a "fallen" women Oooooooooo

Many references? I don't think so

[CB123]

It was on Bill's troll thread which Dr G erased ,but ,believe me, those references were there.

Ami, I remember very well what I wrote in that post--I was completely amazed at what Bill had posted.  I'm sorry it was erased because that means the memory you have created of my comments is what will remain in your head.  That's what is sad about such things as erasing, changing posts, going NC, etc.

Bill referred to the "reality" of the situation and I commented to him that he was in the midst of a relationship with a married woman.  I said that being in that situation meant that he was not a good arbiter of reality--that he was not living in reality at the moment.  That he would in the future but that he wasnt at this moment.

Trust me, Ami.  I have walked in your shoes. 

Here's your version of my actions:

If s/one wanted to go through your recent posts to ME, there would be many references to me being a "fallen" women etc.

There have been no recent posts to you, Ami.

There are no "many references".

I have never used the term "fallen woman"--not about you, not about anyone else.  I simply do not use those terms. 

More than that, I have never even thought of you in those terms.  Ever.

Ami, you are projecting.  Your thinking is skewed.  You are reading a post to Bill about his relationship to reality and you are seeing things that I did not say, did not mean to say, never even thought. 

I think you have done a lot of that lately.  I think you are stuck in a cycle of thinking that is pulling you down and making you miserable.  I don't know why you are stuck here, I don't know if you can pull yourself out.  I know that you are lashing out at everyone who is trying to speak straight with you and you are gathering around you the people that will tell you what you want to hear.  I want you to know that I am making absolutely no moral judgment at all about what you are caught up in.  But that doesnt mean everything is okay.  Everything isn't.

I'm not going to apologize, Ami, for something that you have imagined that I said.  But I will give you the last word.  I don't want the last word, I don't need it.  It's yours.

CB



 

[Izzy_*now*]

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I cannot believe the rationale, the denial, the calling of a great post as 'snide and unnecessary', the use of a 'should' statement  which is  full of control and N-ism, and (I'm not sure) the implication that CB ought to be afraid of you and your animosity?

You ought to be banned, Ami....my thoughts about how disruptive you can be on this board

Izzy

[Ami]

Bill referred to the "reality" of the situation and I commented to him that he was in the midst of a relationship with a married woman.  I said that being in that situation meant thent.at he was not a good arbiter of reality--that he was not living in reality at the moment.  That he would in the future but that he wasnt at this moment.





I find this a snide and unnecessary comment, CB, that creates animosity in the reciever, me.             Ami

[Ami]

Izzy
 YOU need to find the source of your anger. It is NOT me, a voice on the computer. Pleeeeaaaaase!           Ami

[Izzy_*now*]

Awwwwwwwwwwww Ami

I am not angry. I am close to laughing at your take on your life......... and Bill's.

A Voice on the Computer. Oh? Who's yours or mine?? Cannot be mine!!

Oh!

Oh!

Do you have cameras and mics set up?

OMAGOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Iz

[teartracks]

Hi CB,

I used not to think I'd ever go NC.  Changed my mind.

I have been guilty more than once of deleting threads and posts.  I now keep copies for the very reason you cited.

tt