Author Topic: I said No!  (Read 1350 times)

LilyCat

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I said No!
« on: July 28, 2008, 05:07:09 PM »
I just spoke up.

We used to let people mail things out through our postage machine and reimburse the company for the postage. As these things go, it got to be too much. (Too much of my time, too much recordkeeping, etc.) Two people in particular used to abuse the privilege, which is why we stopped. (Ironically enough, they were a VP and one of her reports, and they hate each other. But they always seem to do the same things -- very funny!)

One of them (not the VP) just came out to me and asked if I could put 84 cents in postage on something if she gave me the money.

I said no! Emphatically. And I explained that we don't do it any more, and that the person who was doing it for her shouldn't be doing it.

This was a new turn for me, and hard to do. The woman is a quasi-friend and a real trouble-maker. She's bound to start some malicious gossip or triangulation because I did this. (Yes, she's that immature.)

I'm patting myself on the back. A voice spoken. You can't know how hard it is for me to do these things.

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #1 on: July 28, 2008, 05:43:26 PM »
HURRAH!

Way to go, using No!!

"The joy of love lasts such a short time, but the pain of love lasts one's whole life"

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #2 on: July 28, 2008, 06:13:15 PM »
(((((((((((((Lilly))))))))))))))))                          Love   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

gratitude28

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #3 on: July 28, 2008, 07:52:39 PM »
((((((((((((((((((((((Lily))))))))))))))))))))))

BRAVA!!!!!!!!

yOU HAVE EARNED EVEN HIGHER gODDESS STATUS!!  (ooops, caps lock).

Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love, Beth
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Gaining Strength

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #4 on: July 28, 2008, 10:23:21 PM »
Way to go!!!!!!

LilyCat

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #5 on: July 29, 2008, 09:33:14 AM »
Thanks, guys! (Ladies, I guess...)

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #6 on: July 29, 2008, 10:59:24 PM »
It can be soooooooo hard to open your mouth up and stand up for yourself.  Way to go!  Now do it again before you forget how great it felt!   :D

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Re: I said No!
« Reply #7 on: July 30, 2008, 09:50:50 AM »
SoSmall, you made me laugh and smile!! I'm just gonna go do that! (Do it again before I forget how.)