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Dr. Richard Grossman

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« on: December 05, 2008, 02:38:15 PM »
Hi everybody,

My wife was diagnosed with lung cancer a year and a half ago.  Out of respect for her privacy, I did not share this with the board.  She had major surgery shortly after diagnosis.  So far her subsequent CT scans have all been clean—no recurrence is evident.  With lung cancer, oncologists like to see three years of clean scans, so we are half way there—with each scan, we feel more optimistic about the future.

Lung cancer is the number one killer of women—by far.  The general 5 year survival rate post diagnosis is only 15%.  The critical factor is early detection.  My wife was very lucky—she will tell her story elsewhere (more about that later).  The cancer showed up on an unrelated scan, and it was small.  Regarding non-small cell lung cancer (typically non-smokers’ cancer--the kind that my wife had): if it is detected early enough—prior to symptoms appearing—the 5-year survival rate is as high as 75%. 

Obviously, this has been a difficult time for my wife (and myself)—but she is an extraordinarily determined person who makes the best of everything that comes her way.  She has started a foundation, Upstage Lung Cancer, that will combine her talents as a singer, writer, and director in order to raise funds for research in the area of women’s lung cancer—especially in the area of early detection.  The web site is not yet up, but when it is, there will be section where she tells her story—and also, of course, a section on how to contribute.  All contributions will, of course, be very much appreciated.

Best to all,

Richard



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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #1 on: December 05, 2008, 03:46:19 PM »


(((((((((((((((Richard & Hildly & the Wooka girl))))))))))))))
 
Thank you for sharing.  You're the man!

I look forward to visiting and contributing to Upstage Lung Cancer when the website is up. 

Sincerely,

tt



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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #2 on: December 05, 2008, 03:48:47 PM »
Dr. Grossman:

I understand, from personal experience, your year and a half of fear, exhaustion, confusion, pain.  And I share 100% your optimism for the future.  I feel it in my bones.  How wonderful for us to hear (this is selfish) the good news without having suffered through the bad.  Take care.  Thanks for sharing.

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« Reply #3 on: December 05, 2008, 05:01:06 PM »
Dr. Grossman:

I'm so glad to hear you and your wife are doing well and overcoming such challenging circumstances.

My heart goes out to both of you..... I lost someone very dear to cancer.

I'll look forward to visiting that website, when it's up and running.

Take care and thank you for the update.

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« Reply #4 on: December 05, 2008, 06:11:40 PM »
Thank you for sharing that with us.  I cannot imagine the toll the past 18 months have taken on you all.  The news certainly puts a number of things in perspective.  I am so glad to hear that she is doing so well at this stage.  While your post makes it clear that things are up in the air until she gets to the 5 year mark, having good reports each and every visit to the oncologist is such a welcome milestone and great reason for celebration.  Just think of the number of celebrations you have to come in the next few years!

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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #5 on: December 05, 2008, 06:36:05 PM »
So sorry to hear of your struggles, but wonderful to hear the good news.  Wishing your wife a full recovery & would love to contribute.
xoxo,
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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #6 on: December 05, 2008, 10:16:36 PM »
I am so sorry for the pain involved , Richard. The future sounds optimistic and positive. I am so glad about that.             Ami
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« Reply #7 on: December 05, 2008, 10:59:43 PM »
Dr. Grossman,

Thank you so much for sharing this very personal part of your life.  I can imagine what a difficult time it has been for you in the last year and a half.  I'm guessing you received this news just about the time that I joined the board. 

I wish all the best for you and your wife.  It's wonderful that she found it early and that the prognosis is so good!  I can imagine that your life has changed in ways that we can't fathom--probably your whole thinking has gone through a metamorphosis as you have come to grips with this disease and it's treatment.  I look forward to reading her website when it is done.

Thank you again, Dr. Grossman, for all the time and all the trouble you go to as you make this place a meaningful experience for all of us.  And thank your wife for sharing you with us at such a sensitive time.  I am very grateful for her generosity.

Love
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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #8 on: December 06, 2008, 06:31:54 AM »
I'm looking forward to visiting the new website, also.

My MIL (82 yr old) also had lung cancer - doesn't smoke; she did many years ago - and surgery. Two years later, she is cancer free also. She'd had a stroke the year before. My husband and I have been the closest of the siblings caring for her and it's such a joy that's she has finally regained her energy (somewhat) and is now fully re-engaged in living her life.

Early detection seems to be the key to overcoming this type of cancer. But detection isn't all that easy, from what I understand. There aren't a lot of overt symptoms. I'm hoping to learn a lot from the new website.

Blessings...
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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #9 on: December 06, 2008, 07:37:16 AM »
Dear Dr. G:

It is very sad that you had to endure this painful experience. But it is very fortunate that it was cought at an early stage in which you can have a very good prognosis.

May God give you all the strenght you need to help your wife and your self.

My heart goes out to you.

Lupita.

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« Reply #10 on: December 06, 2008, 07:57:42 AM »
Oh dear Doc G,

And why am I not surprised that you and your wife have turned your terrifying experience into a mitzvah?

I am so sorry you've been through this, and so sorry for her fear and pain.

So honored to know you even in cyberspace,

and so so grateful.

Thank you for sharing this, and as CB says, please thank her too.

with love and awe,

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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #11 on: December 06, 2008, 10:15:58 AM »
Well Doc,

Looks like we have more in common than we might wish.
A little over three years for us and my wife also continues, miraculously since she is officially stage 4, healthy and happy.
You'll both be in my prayers.

mud

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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #12 on: December 06, 2008, 10:24:45 AM »
Dear Dr. G,

I am so sorry to hear of all you have been through in the past year and a half.  I know how difficult a time this must have been for all of your family.

I admire your wife so much for her initiative to take a terryfing experience and turn it around to help others. 

What an incredible gift to give to others.

My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Love,
Peace
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Re: Lung cancer
« Reply #13 on: December 08, 2008, 01:52:18 PM »
Dear Dr. Grossman,
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. You are an amazing family and I am sure it is your health as a unit that also helped your wife to be strong and move towards recovery.
May the next year and a half pass event-free and may you all enjoy peace of mind as you move farther away from the initial diagnosis,
Love, Beth
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« Reply #14 on: December 15, 2008, 01:37:23 AM »
Dear Dr. Grossman,

I hope and pray for you and your wife.  Thank you for sharing this part of your life and your vulnerability.  It is good to have this good army praying for you and your wife.

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