Thanks for all the positive reinforcement gals!! It all stemmed from me leaving the store and being ok with working at the furniture store. I was there three months and my mom realized I was not coming back.........in desperation she hired these high priced consultants who basically told her to do what I had been telling her for years. Only when she agreed to REALLY retire, I went back.....and it is good cuz I could have never taken so much time off for the hysterectomy at the furniture store......mom will never admit they validated me.............she is actually rewriting history in her mind....delusional but I am ok with it if she does not project stuff on me etc.
My H? I told him I was contacting a lawyer......that I had had enough....................he has straightened up, found a great job and is doing so much better (albeit it still boring....)
So I am doing much better, thank you very much!!
Kelly