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Life takes a turn.......................
« on: July 06, 2009, 09:08:41 PM »
Hello all my friends.

So for the past three years I have had a bad back.  I have gone to the chiro and the DO.  I had an Xray and an MRI.  I finally decided I needed to have a hysterectomy.  I did google search after google search trying to find a reason for my back pain.  I had very heavy periods was anemic and had some fibroids so I finally decided that the back pain must have had something to do with the back pain.

So (on the day Michael and Farrah died) June 25 I went in for a total hysterectomy.  I came out of anesthesia and was told the surgery was hard and when they lifted up my intestines they found a mass wrapped around my ureter (the tube that connects one of the kidneys to the bladder...)  The gyno called in a different surgeon to take care of that tumor....they told me it looked benign but they would send it to the path lab as usual to make it was nothing.

So my h and I went in to have my staples taken out and the doc told me the mass was malignant.  So I have cancer?  Yes.  So he told me the type...leiomyosarcoma....very rare.  I went home and googled it and became VERY scared.  It doesn't look good.  So tomorrow I go in for my first oncology appointmnet.  My sis in law is an oncology nurse and she is going with me.  I will fight this with everything I have.  I guess it was good I decided to have this elective surgery because they stumbled upon the tumor.  Funny....the tumor is right where all the back pain was......they didn't see it on the MRI.....

Oh well, I could use some prayers.   If it's not one thing it is another!!

Love, Kelly
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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2009, 09:36:32 PM »
Hi Kelly,

You are in my thoughts.  I'm sure you'll find a lot of support here.

Best wishes,

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2009, 09:50:34 PM »


Hi Kelly,

You have my prayers. 

So sorry you're having to bear up under such disturbing news.   

Love,
tt

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2009, 10:03:48 PM »
Kelly, you bet, I will keep you in my thoughts. You're very fortunate to have your SIL to be there for you, not just to provide support, but to be a second set of ears at the oncologist's office. That's so very important, as in our own fear, we often don't hear things correctly.

I know there really isn't anything I can say to put your mind at ease, but do know that people are thinking of you. Love, and friendship, and faith can be very healing things.

Wishing you all the best,
Kathy

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #4 on: July 06, 2009, 10:16:09 PM »
Oh Kelly
 I have you immediately in my prayers and will STAY that way.  I have a good feeling that it will work out and you will thrive and be well, (((Kelly)))).    Love   Ami
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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #5 on: July 06, 2009, 10:18:22 PM »
Hello Kelly,

I'm so sorry to hear of yet another battle for you to fight. I will be thinking of you and wondering , now that you know, if mind over matter will make it disappear!!

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #6 on: July 06, 2009, 10:30:05 PM »
I looked it up and hopefully the surgery got it all and you will be fine. I think that will be the case. I have very strong intuitive feelings about things and a VERY strong one that you will be OK.   Love   Ami
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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #7 on: July 06, 2009, 11:15:27 PM »
Oh, Kell. I am so very sorry.

Please read this web site, which says that the type of oncologist you see is crucial, and you need to
request a referral to a sarcoma oncologist or sarcoma treatment center for overseeing your treatment, or for a second opinion. We define a sarcoma oncologist as an oncologist who sees at least 100 sarcoma patients a year, and who often works in or near a sarcoma treatment center.*

http://www.leiomyosarcoma.info/

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #8 on: July 06, 2009, 11:26:29 PM »
Dear Kelly:

I'm certainly keeping you in my prayers and thoughts as well.  Do not despair as much good work and advances are being done in the field.  The fact that you happened upon the discovery of the tumor the way you did was a good sign.  Lean on the support you have around you and stay positive as you face this latest battle.

Thinking only good thoughts for you.

SunBlue

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #9 on: July 07, 2009, 12:49:25 PM »
Hi Kell,

I am sorry to hear this.  You are in my thoughts and prayers. 

Sending good Vibes and Wishes,

Love
Deb

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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #10 on: July 07, 2009, 02:10:07 PM »
Kelly,

it IS possible to have cancer and for surgery to remove it all. It happened to my MIL, with lung cancer. After 2 years of return/checkup appts,. she was told not to bother making another appt.

Keep thinking about that, OK? Meanwhile, I'll be here waiting to hear very good news from you.
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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #11 on: July 07, 2009, 02:20:41 PM »
Dear Kelly,

Prayers and thoughts being said for ((you)).

With continued support (((strength and healing))) Love, seasons
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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #12 on: July 07, 2009, 02:23:24 PM »
Kelly,

So sorry to hear.  I pray that you be restored to full health.

xoxo,
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« Reply #13 on: July 07, 2009, 08:52:28 PM »
((((Kelly))))

::sending healing light and prayers your way::

I'm glad the cause of your pain is now known.... even though it's scary.

You can deal with it, instead of suffering without understanding.

Your SIL will be such a comfort.....  someone to walk you through and help figure it out.

Stay positive.

Mo2




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Re: Life takes a turn.......................
« Reply #14 on: July 07, 2009, 09:33:41 PM »
Kelly....

Come vent?

Don't be alone with the fear.

You can let it out here.

SCARY AS HELL.

(But that doesn't mean it's not going to turn out okay.)

love,
Hops
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