NM has always fawned all over my hubby. He has put her in her place more than once, but she doesn't get it. Its jealousy pure and simple. She HATES the fact that he always stands up for me and calls her on her bad behavior. In her twisted mind she thinks that somehow one day, she'll win him over to her side. We used to live out of state and so contact was minimal. Now, she moved near us and contact is very low, but more than I'd like. Moving is just not in the cards right now, but believe me I have
seriously considered it. Anyway, yesterday we celebrated hubby and son' birthdays and NM was there. She gave my husband this card that completely insulted me. (By the way, I didn't even get a call on my birthday - but in a way - that was a great present) On the front there was a picture of a dog in a sweater and it said:
Son-in-law, I was going to get you something nice to wear for your birthday
and then the inside showed an overflowing closet and it said:
But then I remembered you lived with my daughter so you probably don't have any closet space anyway...
She enclosed a gift card to a store he liked and signed it, "Love Mom".