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Lucky

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Abuse and health
« on: November 09, 2009, 09:18:12 AM »

Ales2

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #1 on: November 09, 2009, 10:41:00 PM »
This is absolutely fabulous! Thanks for finding/sharing/posting. 

I have only been physically sick once in my life - during college. As a result of the stress of my Nm and her ridiculous expectations, school and sorority, I ended up getting mono which became full blown Epstein-Barr virus, which I carry today, but have learned to manage through nutrition, exercise, supplements, and as I've been learning, enforcing more boundaries.  Being sick and living w/my Nm when I was a college junior was devastating. Also, it started with strep throat - which is sometimes symbolic of someone who cannot speak for themselves. No irony lost there.  A couple of years later, I went through a tremendous depression, that my MD Dad noticed and sent me to a psychiatrist in his clinic. I took prozac, and it helped, but never addressed the underlying issues that got me there in the first place. It was reassuring/lucky to have him as my Dad, devastating to have her as my Mom. Ironically, she has RA, which is not surprising.

I am a big believer in the connection between mind/personality and health and find it no accident that certain personality types gravitate toward certain illnesses, while avoiding others. Also, there is proof that when medicine does not work for a patient, the illness has an emotional or mental cause. (see Caroline Myss, Louise Hay and others for info on that).

I'm a doctors kid and grew up with first rate, accurate, medical information, and agree with what is being said here....

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2009, 11:28:37 PM »


Hi,

There is no doubt in my mind that abuse has a tremendous impact on a person's health.  Ales, I also came down with mono as an adult (1 in 1000 chance).  From that it morphed into Chronic Fatigue, Fibromyalgia.  The body pain was so intense (somewhere between 7 & 8 on the 1 to 10 scale.  Pain medication has no effect on me.  I had to grin and bear it.  My GP hospitalized me twice during my 7 years of hell.  God bless him, once he put me on the pediatric ward.  He said, it's nice and quiet there.  It was pure heaven.   He knew the circumstances I was in, that of cargiving my mother.  He was her doctor too.  I will never forget his thoughtfulness during that period.  I didn't know it, but at the same time he was caring for his ex wife who was battling kidney failure.  She and my mother passed away a month apart.  He was dedicated to giving her (his ex) the best possible care as I was dedicated to giving the best I had to my mother.  He understood the stress I was under.  Now I wonder who was caring for him during his difficult journey...Hopefully, I will recover some of what was lost during that time.

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Lucky

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #3 on: November 10, 2009, 05:13:03 AM »
Just a number of problems mentioned:
Altered ovarian function
Vaginismus
Hyperemesis
gravidarum
Ob-Gyn
Chronic Daily Headaches
Pseudoseizures
Dizziness/
lightheadedness
Syncope
Altered sensations
Primary CVA -strangle Transient amnesia
Secondary to high risk
behavior
Increased risk of CVA
Seizures
Neurological
Increased surgical
procedures in general
More complications from
surgery
Higher rate of surgical
failure
Chronic low back pain

http://www.google.nl/search?hl=nl&q=COLEVA+Consequences+of+Violence+and+Abuse&btnG=Zoeken&meta=lr%3D&aq=f&oq=
« Last Edit: November 10, 2009, 05:26:43 AM by Lucky »

JustKathy

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #4 on: November 10, 2009, 04:38:16 PM »
Wow, I also came down with mono as an adult (around age 43). I have occasional recurrences, which my doctor told me is rare but possible, especially with people who are extremely stressed. Mine also morphed into chronic fatigue, which I was fortunately able to beat.

I find this very interesting. The odds of contracting mono as an adult are extremely rare, and here are three of us!

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #5 on: November 10, 2009, 07:37:20 PM »
Wow - its true that its rare, but I was living in a college dorm where it was rampant. Its also meaningful to us here, because for me anyway, its started with strep throat which is synonymous with not being able to speak and stand up for one's self.

I hope everyone here has recovered - I have! 

Yeech....  my NM called and wants me to call her back - I dread making the call - she sounded distressed which might mean she talked with my brother and he probably squealed about our conversation last week. This might be big trouble!  ugh....

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #6 on: November 10, 2009, 08:37:37 PM »
I am too afraid to even look at the list :shock: :?                                                     Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #7 on: November 11, 2009, 12:56:48 PM »
Wow that is a scary list.

I do have some of the problems from this list

Back pain
Chronic pelvic pain
OCD behaviour
Panic attacks
Endocrine problems

I also get migraines and have done since I was 8 years old.
Most of these things are stress related.

I know that if I am upset within minutes my back is in agony and then when that starts to get better as the stress goes I get a post stress migraine lasting at least 3 days.

I had no idea that all these years of emotional abuse have affected my health, I just assumed it was one of those things.

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Re: Abuse and health
« Reply #8 on: November 11, 2009, 09:37:12 PM »
There's actually a field of study called "psychoneuroimmunology." That's a mouthful but the relationships between our psychological health, our neurological health, and our immune system are so important that it has spawned a whole field of inquiry.

Also, think about conditions such as asthma, psoriasis, and fibromyalgia in which it is known that stress is a factor in flare-ups.

Abuse or a history of abuse is just one type of extreme stress ... if you investigate the importance of stress in general to physical conditions, you will find a lot of information out there.