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Hopalong

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Seastorm's Safe House
« on: March 29, 2010, 08:34:21 PM »
Jeez, just caught up on your story.
I wanted to send you a hug, Sea. And make you a thread if you want it.
(If you don't, just say...I'll remove.)

What an arse, shape-shifter, creep. Good riddance.

Big empty house is better than one with HIM in it.

When my brother came after me and harmed me financially, I sold my car, got a very cheap one, and took in renters.

It brought some life and lightness.

I don't know if that's right for you but I am so glad he's gone.

Change the locks. Take all the care of yourself you possibly can.

That would include never saying speaking to him unless through an attorney?
Wouldn't it?

love,
Hops
"That'll do, pig, that'll do."

seastorm

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Re: Seastorm's Safe House
« Reply #1 on: March 30, 2010, 03:24:39 AM »
Hi Hops,

Thanks so much for your kind words and encouragement. I think he is long gone, although I still imagine I hear his truck pulling in the driveway but it is only a ghost.

That is interesting about taking in renters. I have considered this too. I feel pretty lonely and haven't managed to overcome this.
 What is a thread?  I"m not too great with computers so dont know what you mean.

Lots of love to you.

Sea storm

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Re: Seastorm's Safe House
« Reply #2 on: March 30, 2010, 03:25:56 PM »
You're so welcome, Sea.

I have really enjoyed my "boarders" for the most part and the income's been a godsend. It's a lower wing, small bedroom, bath, and fairly large paneled study/main room. They share my kitchen, though I've decided when they move on and I get a new person, I'm just going to offer it as a simple suite, and the person can have a microwave and little mini-fridge at one end of the study. And the little folding door I use now to divide their hall off from my kitchen, I'll replace with a solid one. I include all utilities and cable in their rent, and they also can use my wireless internet service. They've been content. (They have another home they're retiring to in another state this summer.)

Since this person is an interim minister at my church, we're pretty relaxed about being housemates. His wife's a challenge at times, but generally we respect each others' privacy and they've been saints about my decrepit incontinent dog and depressed daughter, who was not on the menu when they moved in, but has been here 6 months. I think for a new tenant, some driven post-doc at the local university who spends most of his time on research, etc., would be ideal. I don't want to get two people in there again. But it's really been a good solution for now. We have no formal lease, just an informal agreement we all signed. Either of us can give a month's notice.

A thread is just this topic--didn't want to leave this one up if you preferred not.

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Hops
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Re: Seastorm's Safe House
« Reply #3 on: March 31, 2010, 01:16:39 AM »
Thanks for the info about sharing your space. I have a suite downstairs that rent out but I have thought of sharing my place upstairs. I was raised in a rooming house and my reaction to money worries is to rent out more rooms. This brought me some very interesting experiences, some good and some really weird.

If anyone reads my thread it would be good to hear from them.

Thanks Hops.  I am so glad you are still here on the Board.

Sea storm