Nmom's little sister

[Overcomer]

I have come to the realization that my nmom's little sister is a selfish little conniving bitch.

My grandmother is 95 years old and they just found cancer.  They will not treat her because of her age.  She will just die whenever it takes hold, they will make her comfortable, etc.

But right now she is doing pretty good.

So my nmom and her brother have been taking care of her.  Her little sister (my aunt aged 62) went to a class reunion while they were making room for a hospital bed in her senior apartment etc.

My nmom is taking me and my girls to Orlando on Friday.  Now little sister is crying foul because she thinks my mom is dumping her mother on her.

Note......this 95 year old grandmother has been cleaning her home and doing her laundry free of charge for 30 years and my aunt cannot be bothered to check in on her for less than two weeks.

Is this narcississm?

[Izzy_*now*]

hi OC.

How are YOU feeling?

Did Grandma do her own cleaning and laundry, or the niece's? Did Grandma offer without strings, or did niece ask her .... with no $trings?

Is niece in good health?

I am just going by what I have done, and that is to ask for no help from family. I will see myself through until I am in Grandma's condition, and go to a hospice. No family member has offered any assistance, except for the 1 week my sister came here in April, this year. She 'walked' around and did things her way and now that she is gone, I am back to doing things at my way and happier for it!

I have had my therapist put things back in places that I can reach, as opposed to 'criticizing' my sister, but Sis doesn't know any better and never even tried to learn. My therapist knows when to help and when to leave me alone!

Love
IZZY