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So sad -- broke off with best friend at work

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Nic:
Hi Clara,
I'm sorry about your predicament..indeed the N thing brings all kinds of situations and horrible feelings to life!
I hope you have a good year and that you sort everything out.  I have never been in you situation and I cannot offer any advice, I can only trust that because you are aware that something is wrong and you are ready to investigate it that the answers will come to you as they did and do to us.
The real object of my post is to thank you for being gracious in response to the condemning post from bigboy.
I'm a practicing Christian, a believer if you will..and the Lord has helped and is helping me continually.  In fact i rely on Him from one minute to the next really.  That being said, I have never been a "saint" and I have learned that life will take each and every one of us on a specific journey.  I was guilt-ridden for years and terribly scared of not being worthy, as a result of the abuse suffered in my N family..I thought God didn't love me, I even thought God was telling me to love my abusive and lost parents before I considered even myself.
I know now, that there is no condemnation, that there isn't anything anyone could/can do, even my N parents, that isn't forgiveable by God.  It's between Him and us individually....Judge not is not a suggestion in the Bible it is a prescription.  
I hope you weren't offended in your spirit, because that's what needs healing in all of us here.
Have a splendid and peaceful new year,
blessings, Nic

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