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Revenge Fantasies?
Meh:
I had em, from my job loss, the revenge fantasy thing, but they dissipated after a while. Still I got in touch with some darkness of the human spirit. Now I understand a little bit more the "evil" in the world because I have some of that evil too.
It's toxic though to carry that around and it emanates from us. I believe it does more damage to the SELF rather than the other.
It's valid to be angry though. Totally VALID IMO. We are allowed to be angry I say.
I feel it like a passing drought of the soul that maybe lasts even a whole year but still I feel better when my own hatred finally peters out. Wow the barriers between people right. Bad deeds, thoughtless, careless, harmful deeds cause walls and fences and lines and barriers between people.
Boundaries or prisons.....who knows. I guess one can imprison oneself in one's own boundaries but this is just a ramble on....
Good luck with spitting the anger out. There are female goddess archtypes that are very wrathful and have blood dripping from their mouths. They are powerful archetypes meaning that many women identify with on some level with this aspect.
Its an aspect.
Hopalong:
Great distinction between the toxicity of revenge and the healthfulness of clean anger, Bones.
Everybody got muck.
Everybody got to decide whether to go down in it and play.
Everybody got to try (hard) to decide if the muck'll come off...long after the Ns are gone.
Hops
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