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Tried to disappear/go NC and they hunted me down!!!

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BonesMS:
((((((((((Kathy)))))))))))))))))))

I would also respond with:  "What package?" and dump the unwanted crap somewhere.

Bones

JustKathy:
Yes! Whatever she sent is probably little more than some socks. She always sends $2 gifts to simply act as a vehicle for the guilt letter. I'll just give whatever she sent to charity.

She won't be able to sleep at night until she has confirmation that I received the package. She didn't send the box with signature confirmation, so she'll have no way of knowing if it arrived, and who actually received it. She'll definitely have a relative contact me to verify that she ruined my Christmas, at which time I'll be able to ruin HER Christmas by letting her think that I dodged this year's guilt trip.  :evil:

JustKathy:
It's really creeping me out that she hunted me down though. It's amazing how far they'll go to torment you. They will NOT be ignored. Period.

teartracks:



JK,

It's not that hard to find accurate information about someone like their address, phone number, credit status (point is, nothing is private anymore) if they are willing to pay.  Would your Nmom do that?

I go for keeping the package, no acknowledgment of receiving it.  Experientially, I've found that overcoming urges to react to NFOO gives me freedom.  If you threw the package in the ocean or river without reading the ugly letter you know it contains, I believe you would feel freedom too.  I understand that not everyone is alike.  I just put this out there in the mix.  If you can use it great.  If you need to deep six it great. 

It's been said on the board before by others, "The only way to win this game is, don't play it."

Blessings,

tt



 

BonesMS:

--- Quote from: JustKathy on December 09, 2011, 09:15:52 PM ---It's really creeping me out that she hunted me down though. It's amazing how far they'll go to torment you. They will NOT be ignored. Period.

--- End quote ---

FWIW, N's equal The Borg.

I would donate the unwanted stuff to a homeless shelter.  If it's only socks, they will be put to good use and you get the tax write-off.

Bones

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