Two months ago I gave my xN another chance and we were good...and it deteriorated slowly to this incomprehensible end. He called me on his birthday to take me to dinner to celebrate with him and asked to spend Thanksgiving together celebrating my birthday. Well as we spent time together he became more and more distant, but still seemed caring, available and helpful while I've been sick with a cold and then double ear infections...until last week I was in the Emergency Room because it was night and I was peeing blood. I called him and left a message to say I was scared and that I would call him when I got home. He called just as I walked in the door and yelled at me for calling him, that I was not his family. (In the past we had agreed to be family for eachother, and he even used my name for hi Emergency Contact!) Hung up, turned off his answering machine, will not answer my calls or return them since. It's been a week. I'm perplexed because we had a great weekend together just prior and he has never shut me out before when I had real problem. So now I am turning 40 and so heart broken.
I will not forget this one. I will not contact him nor ever give him another chance. I just want to know why...but hopefully time will make me not care.
