Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/depression-screening-to-the-rescue.html

[BonesMS]

http://lovemeow.com/2013/10/pepper-the-cat-shredding-notes/

I've never known a cat would do this.

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/10/dear_prudence_my_assistant_told_half_the_school_i_was_pregnant_before_i.html

That assistant sounds like an N!

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/mental-illness-trumps-good-parenting.html

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131008

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/10/dear_prudie_my_daughter_got_pregnant_at_her_friend_s_party_and_now_the_owners.html

I can understand the father's anger and, right now, he's so angry that he's not thinking straight.  I wish there was a way to say to him:  "I hear you!  You're angry that your 16-year-old kid is pregnant.  Vent before you DO anything because decisions made in anger are usually VERY BAD decisions!"

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131009

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/run-at-the-speed-of-light-from-this-one.html

That first letter has a LOT of RED FLAGS!

[BonesMS]

I don't blame the adult children for telling the truth!  They must have lived through HELL and it annoys me when strangers, who have NO clue, attempt to tell them how they should feel or what they should be allowed to say.  People who have never experienced abuse do NOT understand the PTSD flashbacks and the trauma that comes out of being forced to live in hell with a monster who should never have been allowed anywhere near children.  I've seen and heard strangers say:  "Well, go get therapy!"  Tried that.  The problem is that the therapists around my geographic area CANNOT wrap their brains around the concept that there are monsters who give birth to their own victims and who enjoy raping and torturing them for their own self-gratification.  These "therapists" are ineffective, at best, or psychologically abusive at worse, leaving survivors worse off and less willing to attempt therapy again when trust is, once again, violated.


And I'm still wrestling with this..............

[Hopalong]

Yikers, Bones. The man in that column is terrifying.
What's more terrifying is the state of the self-esteem of the woman
who is pondering whether to stick with him.

Very sad. And I know I spent a looooooooooong time trying to get
cold men to be loving. Not as extreme as with the bully described,
but it's all the same issue at the core.

Glad to be reminded that it's worse to be miserable in a relationship
than to find moments of happiness alone....

thanks,
Hops

[BonesMS]

Yikers, Bones. The man in that column is terrifying.
What's more terrifying is the state of the self-esteem of the woman
who is pondering whether to stick with him.

Very sad. And I know I spent a looooooooooong time trying to get
cold men to be loving. Not as extreme as with the bully described,
but it's all the same issue at the core.

Glad to be reminded that it's worse to be miserable in a relationship
than to find moments of happiness alone....

thanks,
Hops

Yes!  Being with a bully who abuses you is not worth sticking around.  I hope she sees the RED FLAGS and RUNS!!!!!!

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/bringing-male-rape-out-of-the-dark.html

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131010

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/10/dear_prudence_i_was_raped_by_my_boyfriend_s_friend_but_i_m_afraid_my_boyfriend.html

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131011