Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/the-law-is-the-only-way-out-of-a-legal-guardianship.html

Regarding the first letter, unfortunately this is not a unique situation.  This kind of financial abuse of vulnerable people has happened many times.  I recall that there was a case on Judge Judy where a young lady was injured in an accident while she was still a child and her mother managed to snatch almost all of the settlement money for herself while the child got NOTHING!  The womb-donor actually threw this child into foster care because it was "too inconvenient to be a mother"!     Then the mother had the audacity to SUE the daughter for the balance because the now-adult daughter was finally able to obtain the last portion of the settlement.  When Judge Judy realized what this so-called "mother" had ACTUALLY DONE to her own child and this plaintiff was clearly LYING about how SHE was ENTITLED, the Judge ripped that greedy !@#$ a NEW ONE!!!!  The daughter-defendant won the case.  

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/good-luck-in-disguise-2013-10-11.html

The first letter writer mentions a LOT of RED FLAGS that she seems to be unable to recognize!   

[BonesMS]

I'm so tired!

No matter how hard I try to figure out HOW to BE a friend with 3-D people around me, I keep screwing up!

[Hopalong]

((((((((((((Bones)))))))))))))

I'm sorry, sweetie.
You are feeling discouraged right now
but I KNOW you can be a wonderful friend.

Don't give up.

love to you,
Hops

[BonesMS]

((((((((((((Bones)))))))))))))

I'm sorry, sweetie.
You are feeling discouraged right now
but I KNOW you can be a wonderful friend.

Don't give up.

love to you,
Hops

Thanks, (((((((Hops)))))))))))

This has been a life-long struggle for me ever since I was little.  I feel like an alien on the wrong planet.

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131012

I'd like to tell that first letter writer that even though I'm a Senior Citizen, I still have a teddy bear within reach.  It has helped when my anxiety started getting out of control and it's a lot healthier than popping addictive pills.

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/monthly-allowance-for-biased-mom.html

Once again, the "Annies" are CLUELESS!!!!!!  I wish we could talk to the daughter and let her know that she is NOT alone in dealing with an NWomb-Donor and a Golden Child Brother.  She owes them NOTHING!!!!!  She needs to take care of her own retirement preparations because it's guaranteed they will NEVER help her....only SNATCH AND GRAB what they can TAKE and then tell her to go #$%^ herself when she needs support!

[BonesMS]

Tried to get out and about in the community and found myself struggling with the overwhelming urge to go hide.

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/let-there-be-exes.html

Is it me or do I see Red Flags?

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131013

[Hopalong]

That John is absolutely NOT into anything but having his freedom cake and eating it too (and making sure she doesn't get a crumb).

Ugh. Another great example of a woman accepting "any relationship better than no relationship..."

I understand that loneliness can drive one that way, though. Has me at times.

Hops

[BonesMS]

That John is absolutely NOT into anything but having his freedom cake and eating it too (and making sure she doesn't get a crumb).

Ugh. Another great example of a woman accepting "any relationship better than no relationship..."

I understand that loneliness can drive one that way, though. Has me at times.

Hops

*Shaking my head*

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131014

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/divorcing-power-of-attorney.html

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/10/dear_prudence_i_m_a_breast_cancer_survivor_who_thinks_national_breast_cancer.html