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BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1710 on: July 29, 2010, 09:57:59 AM »
Not feeling too good this morning and side effects from the anti-spasmodic doesn't help much!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1711 on: July 30, 2010, 12:42:00 PM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1712 on: July 30, 2010, 03:32:20 PM »
Hi Bones -- i've not checked in in awhile -- try to follow along -- etc.  I noticed that you dreamed that you were trapped with the ns.... since my mom has died in Feb -- i have dreams that shadowy figures tell me that I'm not done with her and that soon I will have to track her down and once again keep the world safe from her -- whacko - huhn?

Enjoyed reading about the C&O as that is in our back yard as well -- sounds like your summer is going okay -- all things considered?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1713 on: July 30, 2010, 03:41:12 PM »
Hi Bones -- i've not checked in in awhile -- try to follow along -- etc.  I noticed that you dreamed that you were trapped with the ns.... since my mom has died in Feb -- i have dreams that shadowy figures tell me that I'm not done with her and that soon I will have to track her down and once again keep the world safe from her -- whacko - huhn?

Enjoyed reading about the C&O as that is in our back yard as well -- sounds like your summer is going okay -- all things considered?

Love,
Biddy

Thanks, ((((((Biddy)))))))!!!

I've been having my ups and downs lately.  Some days have been better than others.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1714 on: July 30, 2010, 10:16:32 PM »
Hi Bones,
I thought I posted to you earlier (just saying I'm very sorry you're not feeling well) but I was at work and distracted and I must've not hit "Post".

I sure hope you feel better.

And at least it's not quite so HOT outside.

May those spasms (and their antidote's side effects) pass very soon.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1715 on: July 31, 2010, 10:10:49 AM »
Hi Bones,
I thought I posted to you earlier (just saying I'm very sorry you're not feeling well) but I was at work and distracted and I must've not hit "Post".

I sure hope you feel better.

And at least it's not quite so HOT outside.

May those spasms (and their antidote's side effects) pass very soon.

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Hops

Thanks, Hops!

It has been rough lately!

Bones
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1716 on: July 31, 2010, 10:32:25 AM »
I was trying to find the recent thread that discussed religious abuse but can't find it.  Some of my PTSD stems from that too.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1717 on: August 01, 2010, 09:14:23 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1718 on: August 02, 2010, 10:10:49 AM »
Depression
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« Reply #1719 on: August 03, 2010, 01:54:50 PM »
Saw the lung specialist this morning, scheduled to see the general practitioner this Friday, the VR counselor next week and the dentist later this month.  NOT fun!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1720 on: August 04, 2010, 10:24:17 AM »
And more spasms today!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1721 on: August 06, 2010, 08:28:42 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1722 on: August 07, 2010, 02:43:54 AM »
hope you don't mind, I'm keeping you in prayer

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1723 on: August 07, 2010, 07:21:17 PM »
hope you don't mind, I'm keeping you in prayer

Biddy

Thanks, Biddy!

I'm feeling exasperated today!

Yesterday, I saw my general practitioner and he asked me if I had any arrangements in place if I ever become incapacitated.  I told him I had NO idea how to go about arranging that because:  (1) I have no children, (2) my immediate family are all dead, (I wasn't about to discuss the dynamics of having a Narcissistic GC brother that has consistently proven that he CANNOT BE TRUSTED WITH ANYTHING), and the friends in this geographic area don't stay in one place for long.  As for the Idiot who acts like a boyfriend one day and a little boy the next, he refuses to discuss ANYTHING that requires ADULT ATTENTION!  When I attempt to discuss critical issues, he either clams up and shuts down, or he responds with:  "I dunno", or "I'll get 'round to it later", which does NOT help the situation!

Today, he asked me what my doctor said and when I mentioned the doctor's question to me, Idiot started yelling:  "Why did he ask you THAT?!?!?!?"  I pointed out the above facts PLUS there is the family medical history, genetics, AND my own ongoing medical crap!  Then I asked him:  "What do you expect me to do?!?!?"  His response?  "I dunno!  I'll get 'round to it later!"

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRARRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   :P

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1724 on: August 08, 2010, 09:52:21 AM »
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