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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2460 on: June 21, 2011, 06:29:47 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2461 on: June 22, 2011, 06:46:01 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2462 on: June 23, 2011, 09:38:23 AM »
I found the following quote in my InBox this morning.  I thought it might fit in here.  What do you think? 

Bones



"The worst egoist

is the person to whom

the thought has never occurred

that he might be one.

                       Sigmund Freud"

                           (1856-1939)
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2463 on: June 24, 2011, 06:54:40 AM »
Just had a run-in with an N this morning while taking out the trash.  She was going on and on, in her monologue, about how DARE the HOA take HER to court for not paying her condo assessments, (she hasn't paid a penny for over TWO YEARS and she's PROUD of that!   :?) and kept ranting on about how the HOA is conducting illegal activities against her and the judge is on HER side!!!

(It's TOO early in the morning and I'm not even sure why she's telling me all this!  I'm NOT her buddy!)   :?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2464 on: June 24, 2011, 05:56:12 PM »
Bones

that person is a NUT. Hope you can shrug it off and not take it personally.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2465 on: June 24, 2011, 06:38:14 PM »
Bones

that person is a NUT. Hope you can shrug it off and not take it personally.

Thanks, Guest.

I'm trying hard to not take it personally and, at the same time, I'm annoyed that I'm forced to financially shoulder, through my condo fees, what she refuses to pay for!  (It makes me want to smack her!)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2466 on: June 25, 2011, 04:17:23 AM »
Woke up at 3:00 AM and can't get back to sleep.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2467 on: June 26, 2011, 04:44:41 AM »
My sleep-wake cycle is screwed up this morning.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2468 on: June 27, 2011, 06:41:36 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2469 on: June 28, 2011, 07:01:03 AM »
Little better this morning, Bones?
Seems like you're up a little later...

Hope you got some good rest!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2470 on: June 28, 2011, 08:10:03 AM »
Little better this morning, Bones?
Seems like you're up a little later...

Hope you got some good rest!

Hops

Thanks, Hops.

The sleep-wake cycle has been really loopy lately.  I still have a left-over cough from last week so my body may still be fighting what's left of this bug.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2471 on: June 28, 2011, 03:21:11 PM »
Interesting developments at Voc. Rehab........

I met with the supervisor, today, to discuss my case, or more accurately, what has NOT been happening with my case.

Turns out the supervisor was under the impression that the original counselor had been keeping me informed.  (She has NOT!)  I pointed out that was why I sent my e-mail to the supervisor because I had NOT been receiving ANY communications at all about what was going on.

The supervisor was also under the impression that an Individual Plan for Employment had been written out, discussed, and signed off by me.  (Again....NOT!)  I told her that NOTHING has happened in that department!

Then the supervisor asked me about how things were going with my application for either SSDI or SSI.  (WTF?!?!?)  I explained that I was NEVER eligible for SSDI or SSI and spelled out the details that make me ineligible for either program.  (I had checked into this BEFORE I contacted Voc. Rehab.)

The supervisor looked confused as she stated that this is what my original counselor had been telling her all along!!!!  (Looks like the original counselor had been LYING to her boss to play "Cover Her Ass" while, in reality, she had been doing NOTHING!)

Then the supervisor and I worked on a game plan to get on the next step for my home-based business.  I've done my part and now I'm waiting for a response from my instructor.  I've also been re-assigned to a new counselor and she and I seem to hit it off quite well.  She has a service dog that is a golden lab and that 4-legged baby is GORGEOUS!!!!  Smart dog too!  He knew when he became the topic of conversation and started striking a pose!  Made me laugh!

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« Reply #2472 on: June 28, 2011, 04:28:34 PM »
Oh that is so FANTASTIC.

Bravo, Bones!

Woof!
New counselor!

Good communication!

Healthy assertiveness!

Woo-hoo Miz B!!!!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2473 on: June 28, 2011, 05:15:00 PM »
Oh that is so FANTASTIC.

Bravo, Bones!

Woof!
New counselor!

Good communication!

Healthy assertiveness!

Woo-hoo Miz B!!!!!!!

Thanks, Hops!

Today's meeting has given me some hope.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2474 on: June 28, 2011, 05:22:14 PM »
BTW, when I spoke with the supervisor about my business plan, that's when I learned that she, (the supervisor), had not known that the original counselor had received ANYTHING from the R.I.S.E. Committee until I sent my e-mail at the end of May.  She, (the original counselor), simply BURIED it in her office and communicated NOTHING to anyone!  After the supervisor received my e-mail, she had to go into that counselor's office and DIG through stuff before she found it!  Makes me wonder WHY that counselor was there in the first place!
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