Had a good chat with DD24 this morning.
She helped me move two huge fabric framed pieces of art out of way, in garage. We talked about Cows, reactions and having choice vs responding.
Noticing choice or not noticing choice.
Choosing to react, but mindfully choosing it, vs not being aware.
For the most part, she agreed with everything.
I will say, the discussion came from a place of huge compassion, for me, after watching me struggle, for a while, on my own, ending in a folded mattress breaking the leg on an antique folding file cabinet table filled with assorted beads, bows, costumes and bobbles.....what a mess.
Much was learned, discussed and I asked for help, received it and agreed to ask for help proactively in future.
I honestly thought I could handle the mattress. Not clearing my path, first, was a problem.
I just stepped on a bit of fabric, from that event, and went down on my left knee, landing in a pile of bits. Not injured, but must stop, clear some things up, then think through the rest of this transition.....moving sewing machine, costumes and supplies to other end of house, while living in the space.