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Mindfulness and codependence thread
sKePTiKal:
B and I agree, that scenes like that can be fun - BUT - it's no longer fun when people lose self-control and inhibitions about doing, saying anything. Like some kind of free pass to blather anything in their heads no matter who they upset or offend. Worse is the person who revisits the SAME MONOTONOUS TIRADE of blather EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. and it seems they intentionally seek that "point of no return" just to give the same speech again.
I feel sorry for people who want to publicly stew in their own self-percepted agony over & over again. And it's not fun.
Hopalong:
Ay, yi yi, Lighter.
One really does need to examine who we're willing to hang out with, its tacit acceptance.
No need for moralisms or looking down noses. But maybe ask, what is rubbing against this climate (or being rubbed against, ewwww) -- doing for my growth and serenity?
Ay yi yi.
I'm sure you'll process it all but wish you didn't find yourself in situations which demand it. You deserve to be around values and behaviors that uphold you.
hugs
Hops [edited two words that sounded too judgmental on re-reading]
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