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Farm Doin's - 2020
lighter:
I'm
So
Relieved to see B is changing tactics....
YES!!
Hopalong:
I am holding my breath for an hour.
MUCH comfort and hope,
Hops
Twoapenny:
Another vote for him moving in with you sooner rather than later, Skep. And for what it's worth, my jaded, skeptical view of healthcare in general is that there's no money to be made out of healthy people, or out of people knowing how to look after themselves and just letting nature take it's course at times. Not suggesting that Buck can heal on his own, of course, but I'd lay money that being there with you will do him the power of good in more ways than one. Yep, I can see he might not like that feeling of relying on someone but it won't be forever and there's bound to come a time when you'll need to lean on him so it will level out. Fwiw I keep two synopses of my son's situation (as his notes run into thousands of pages); one that bullet points everything from the outset (a long doc but once the initial bit was set up I just added to it each time something major occurred) and one that bullet points the here and now situation. An awful lot of the information is repeated on various reports and assessments so the actual info needed gets kind of buried, which is a pain. So it could be a 'the night's are drawing in' activity supplemented with hot chocolate and biscuits :) And now my weird paperwork OCD is itching to come over there and sort it all out for you :) Lol xx
sKePTiKal:
OH.... thanks for the offer Tupp and the vote of confidence!
I'm pretty good at that kind of distillation too. And I don't really dread it, because it helps my peace of mind to have a big picture, trends, and absolute bottom lines all defined. And I've been reading scientific/medical stuff for over a decade now.
There's more, but right now this is all a very active "work in progress" - and I have a list of other things to get to, too.
OH, one of the big changes around here, since building the Hut, is that for Hol to get an address, the county 911/GIS office wants to name my driveway and change my house number & street address... to be able to give Hol a house number/address. LOLOLOL. They calculate house numbers by exact tenths of a mile distance - and in this case, since there are two residences and my dirt road has been improved so much to allow for hut construction - they have to do this to stay consistent with their system. So far, I know what the road name will be; I should get the house numbers next Tues. That office tech only works 2 days a week. ;)
I don't know how long that's going to take, but we'll both have to change addresses for EVERYTHING. Most I think, can happen online (I hope). But that's going to depend on having a good cell signal.
Wheeeeeeeeee. 0 to 90 mph in less than a second.
Hopalong:
Damn!
Call 'em quick and ask if YOU can offer road name preferences!!
I love naming stuff, will drown you in unsolicited suggestions.
hugs
Hops
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