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sKePTiKal

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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #60 on: November 12, 2025, 08:21:44 AM »
I've got one project to work on over the winter - my downstairs entry. Repurposing, painting a storage bench I already have, have a board of hooks and two shelves to put up. Beadboard to lighten the space as opposed to the horizontal heavy pine everywhere in the house. Shoe racks.

Hol & I will tackle that, so B doesn't feel under pressure to make it "just so".
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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #61 on: November 12, 2025, 11:39:06 AM »
Amber, reading your list of projects brings me comfort, and calm.....it feels like you're creating sacred spaces. Transformation.....of most kinds.....tickles my attention deficit brain.

Right now, I'm pausing.....looking around....noticing what's really here.  What will matter in 5, 10....15 years.  25 years.  Checking myself.... my priorities.....taking the temperature of my girls....the bf....making list, or.....poising to make lists.....the bf and youngest DD are asking for a list.

It feels like I'm leaning over a cliff's edge.....
but balanced. 
Not teetering, or endangered, or whipped and blinded by the wind....
but leaning into it....
over....above, what's below...with multiple possibilities.
A leap? 
Flight? 
Swan dive?
I don't know, but there's choice and choices....
 restored.
HUGE.

Maybe everything.
Small.
Large.
Expansive.
I get to choose, this time.

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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #62 on: November 12, 2025, 11:49:15 AM »
This fall has been VERY busy with projects & med appts keeping us up and moving most of the weeks. The year before that was the studio remodel (we're not completely done; but very close - just little stuff). I want to be lazy & dreamy -- and explore other things -- this winter.

Hol is rebuilding her work space, this time in the loft in her garage. In her words: making it a space she WANTS to be and work in. And it's separate from the house, so it's breaks up her day, feels like "going to work". Like my studio.

I love my free, unstructured time.  <big grin>
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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #63 on: November 13, 2025, 12:34:03 PM »
Can't wait for updates, Amber.  Whatever you spend your unstructured time on....
let it be what draws you to it.

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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #64 on: November 14, 2025, 08:55:04 AM »
There's one day of work left.  One day. 
Deck skirting.
Hanging ceiling fan and 2 HEAVY mirrors.
Bring and install drawer in upstairs vanity.

I think I can install the mirrors....a little worried about plumbing and plumbing vent pipes.

The skirting......I could just remove entirely, and maybe feel better about it, entirely.

The drawer, though......I need that drawer.

If contractor doesn't come back......bc he's been sick and maybe feels unmothered, (all I can think of, plus a small embarrassing mistake installing GFI outlets....wires under, instead of over, at nice neighbor's, requiring an electrician be hired)bc of it.....I can trade back his wet vac, stud finder and mud/grout stuff for the drawer.....and we'd be square.  Also, I could pet the goats and pigs.

The Mexican family, at lake, are happily considering the install of wedding "arch" and what employment opportunities a venue present for them. Same for me. They care for an elderly mother, and the husband isn't working.....his son is special needs......it seems like the universe is lining me up for her....for me....but then, maybe not.  But maybe, lol.

Maybe.

 I'll stick with that.

I'm definitely not going to Island for Thanksgiving.  I'm heading to lake..... that's the priority.

As for any updates, to island guest cottage......I depend on my real handyman, who house is eeper is angry with.  The thing is......she fell down (fig.) with the he water heater problem.  Left me hanging.....and so did her brother "caretaker." IF they were on top of, things they complained about, that's one thing.  They're not.  My brother solved the water heater problem, bc he was headed to island anyway.

My real handyman was late answering my text and wasn't available.  I think word got around..... he's been blamed for water leak and won't be brought back to work at cottage.

Which leads me ......
to this.....
"Caretaker" has to rise, and do repairs with me.  Replace bathroom walls.....paint everything.  Caulk.  I have no idea how the cistern is doing in his house.  He has no hot water heater, which means he comes and goes at the cottage, still. A problem...... maintenance and checks of the seawall wooden bridge.....the roof.  Many problems.

Maybe a new roof, seawall install and guesthouse project in January/February. I can ride with brother.  He can carry in materials?  Maybe?  Some, at least.  I can order roofing from Nassau and avoid the taxes, shipping and whatever dealing with local government requires now.

Seawall ......same, but requires a permit. Permit?  I think, ya....permit.

Maybe build a little house on unclaim d property, to prevent Cecil from claiming my end of it?

There's issues ...as always. 

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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #65 on: November 15, 2025, 09:49:36 AM »
Lighter, sweetie...
It's beyond me why you continue to try to maintain a property that is so far away, counting on people that (no judgement) you just can't count on. Are there any property management companies on the island or nearby that you could at least turn the maintenance over to?

It's hard enough for us to deal with the acreage we LIVE on and the list is all "work in progress". I tried once to have a totally communications free cabin... and it got way out of control. Life has been a good bit easier since selling it.

Once the lake house is settled (and imagining that you don't have any responsibility for the island anymore) wouldn't you like to travel? Do something brand new and different?

I dunno, this is just my opinion. And maybe reflects a glimmer of what I've been feeling lately. Less stuff to "take care of " has been on my "list' for a long time now.
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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #66 on: November 15, 2025, 11:08:41 PM »
Amber:  I hope the cottage sells to recent guests.  They're looking for a survey company.  Will see.

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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #67 on: November 16, 2025, 08:11:08 AM »
Fingers & toes crossed Lighter!
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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #68 on: November 16, 2025, 08:57:31 PM »
Mine, too.
SO much renovation becomes an albatross, even before you fly to the Caribbean to supervise it.

Would love to see you free of it, Lighter.

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Re: Adventures in renovations... again
« Reply #69 on: November 16, 2025, 09:09:44 PM »
I'm working on it.....working on it in several directions. 

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