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« Reply #180 on: April 28, 2005, 03:19:45 PM »
Hey guys, I had lunch with you today.

There's a very cute boutique mall about 20 minutes from where I live. I went there to pick up a cherished old clock that I'd had repaired, and decided to have lunch first, at a microbrewery-restaurant there.

I've been there before and enjoyed it, but usually I ask to sit outside or in the sunroom, because I'd rather be alone... but today I sat in the main room and had the time of my life.

There were a lot of people there having really nice times together, and I wasn't listening in, but just watching faces, smiles, and so on. And I started playing a nice 'game' - hmm, that one's tall and looks outdoorsy, he's quiet, comfortable with the women friends at his table, I christen thee mudpup. She's quiet, but very classy, neat artistic jewelry, oh I name thee Portia, and thy friend, who's equally classy and brought a novel with her, thee I name October. This fellow looks like a really nice guy. Bright. Aha, he's an engineer, lunching with colleagues, they might be from Goddard. Hmm. Longtire? Oh, now look, how sweet this woman is with her young friend's little children. Look how sweet they both are with their young friends' little children. Hi mum, hi brigid.... and that young friend, that must be mia, and she's chutz.... and on and on, I 'found' GFN, daylily, butterfly, write, everyone...

I can't remember the last time I enjoyed myself half as much, lunch was delicious too; and the neat thing is, by the time I left, about a third of the people in the room smiled at me when I took off (and I smiled back).

I know none of you were really there. But it was so lovely, to pretend that I was in a room full of people as good as you are. That there are such rooms, and such people. May we all find them in our lives.

hugs all.

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« Reply #181 on: April 28, 2005, 03:31:28 PM »
Stormchild: thank you for sharing your lunch!  It made me smile and then cry  a little, for I do feel isolated a bit today, and that made me think I am not so much.
Funny thing is, I do have a young friend who stopped by our school today with her one year old (she used to teach here, and also taught my daughter).  Her little boy is awesome, and he and I had a great time together....
I was telling her about my D and how she is singing in a concert tomorrow night, and she said she and the teacher she is staying with (another co worker and friend, and former teacher of my D) would both come with me to see her.
She couldn't have known how much I hate going to those things alone, especially when my D is at her "dad's" and I have to go and leave without her.  So little tiny miracles like that....and your lunch, build us back up, after we've been kicked down again.  I like to  think more little nice things are coming my way soon.

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« Reply #182 on: April 28, 2005, 03:52:47 PM »
Stormy...what a neat thing to do.  The world ain't bad some days, is it!  Bittles

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« Reply #183 on: April 28, 2005, 04:14:11 PM »
Storm

So how was the food?  

Sounds like you were in good company.  :wink:

Glad you enjoyed your lunch.  :D  

Mia

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« Reply #184 on: April 28, 2005, 06:38:28 PM »
Stormy,

So that tall, pretty gal sitting by herself, and smiling pleasantly at everyone was you?  8) I wish I'd stopped and said hi. :oops:

Thanks for making my day Stormy.

Sort of like you wove a tapestry for us. :D
Thanks again.

mudpuppy

PS. That's kind of like the idea to get together and share our paintings and music and whatnot on another thread. Oh yeah, and Brigid, don't forget you said you're bringing the food. :wink:  :P Didn't you?

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« Reply #185 on: April 28, 2005, 06:44:05 PM »
Hi Ya'll:

Stormy:  That was truly beautiful! :D   What a lovely picture you painted for yourself and all who read it!  Was I 29, hour glass figure, with painted nails, thick curls and long flashing eyelashes??  Was I eating anything fishy?

Stormy that wasn't me!!! :shock:  :shock:  But thanks for thinking of me and pretending I was there too.  Actually, I was there, in your head and in your heart, which is almost as good!  Thankyou for inviting me to lunch, Storm, at such a nice place as your head and heart.  It was fabulous!!  Let's do it again soon, ok?  My treat! :D

Mum:  Miracles come in all sizes eh?  (Wish I could coin a phrase like that!!).  That is so nice that you have friends to go with and enjoy your evening, instead of feeling alone and leaving on your own, after it's over.  I'm so glad there are angels!   And some of them visit you!  :D

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I like to think more little nice things are coming my way soon.


I'm sure there will be Mum!  One thing's for sure, as they arrive....you won't miss them!  You have a keen eye for nice little things and you deserve many of them!  ((((Mum)))).

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The world ain't bad some days, is it!


Not 1/2 bad at all with people like you coming along and adding nice things.  Glad you're here, Bittles! :D

There is so much to read on this board and I'm not keeping up.  "So much to do.....so little time", another one of those phrases I didn't coin.    I want to read every thread here and respond to as many as I have anything to add to......but alas......I haven't time.

I just want to say to those who I've posted to and who have responded to me and who I have not posted back to.......

Please forgive me.  I'm sorry that I didn't thank you when you said something nice to me, or answered when you asked a question, or thanked you for adding your thoughts/comments.   I just don't have enough time, right now but I want you to know that I appreciate every word you type and I thank you for taking the time to do that.  I'm trying to read but I like to think over what I want to say before I post (usually), and then it seems I have some other responsibility (in life) that I must attend to and don't get back to write, or I have to disconnect my pc because of something life requires of me.

I just keep thinking about some who might be feeling ignored and rejected when they've bothered to post something and I don't post back and please, please hear that it's my fault...because I'm busy and can't post.....and nothing to do with you.  I guess I've been worrying about it, ever since I told you, Stormy, to stop worrying about it.

How ridiculous is that????? :shock:  :shock:  :?  :oops:

((((((all)))))).

GFN

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« Reply #186 on: April 28, 2005, 10:35:38 PM »
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There is so much to read on this board and I'm not keeping up.  "So much to do.....so little time", another one of those phrases I didn't coin.    I want to read every thread here and respond to as many as I have anything to add to......but alas......I haven't time.

I just want to say to those who I've posted to and who have responded to me and who I have not posted back to.......

Please forgive me.  I'm sorry that I didn't thank you when you said something nice to me, or answered when you asked a question, or thanked you for adding your thoughts/comments.   I just don't have enough time, right now but I want you to know that I appreciate every word you type and I thank you for taking the time to do that.  I'm trying to read but I like to think over what I want to say before I post (usually), and then it seems I have some other responsibility (in life) that I must attend to and don't get back to write, or I have to disconnect my pc because of something life requires of me.

I just keep thinking about some who might be feeling ignored and rejected when they've bothered to post something and I don't post back and please, please hear that it's my fault...because I'm busy and can't post.....and nothing to do with you.  I guess I've been worrying about it, ever since I told you, Stormy, to stop worrying about it.

How ridiculous is that????? :shock:  :shock:  :?  :oops:

((((((all)))))).

GFN


Bless your kind heart, GFN. I stopped worrying about it somewhere around the time I started my sea cuke thread.

Actually, you were the lady with the extremely infectious laugh, and you were keeping daylily, write, and dogbittles in stitches, and butterfly was sort of watching from the next table and trying not to let on and not to crack up.

It was really a nice place to be.

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« Reply #187 on: April 28, 2005, 11:42:38 PM »
Stormy,
What a nice lunch we shared.  I so rarely get to go out for lunch so it was a wonderful treat.  I hope I didn't have anything low-fat.  What would be the point of going out. :shock:

Mud,
I would be happy to prepare dinner for the gang.  For the main course, I would prepare a beef tenderloin with Merlot sauce (sorry if I disturbed you vegans out there), rosemary roasted potatoes and steamed asparagus.  I think a strawberry cheesecake would be the perfect dessert (don't ask me why, but it just sounds right).  Don't ever plan on me cooking low-fat either.  Can I count on you to bring the wine?

OK, obviously I have food on the brain.  I miss cooking for friends and sharing those wonderful chats around the table.  I guess maybe its time to venture out on my own and start having those dinner parties again.

GFN,
You are always so good about responding to everybody and giving such thought to your responses.  You are forgiven for occasionally missing someone--after all, you are not perfect like the rest of us.  :roll:

Brigid

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« Reply #188 on: April 29, 2005, 12:13:32 AM »
Hey Brigid,
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Can I count on you to bring the wine?

Sure. What would you recommend for tenderloin of beef? Thunderbird or ripple?  
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For the main course, I would prepare a beef tenderloin with Merlot sauce (sorry if I disturbed you vegans out there), rosemary roasted potatoes and steamed asparagus. I think a strawberry cheesecake would be the perfect dessert

That sounds just about right,  but don't forget to prepare something for  the rest of the guests. :P  :roll:  :P

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« Reply #189 on: April 29, 2005, 08:26:14 AM »
Bless your heart too, Stormy and I'm glad you're not worrying about it anymore.  That's a good thing!! :D

Bless yours two or three times, Brigid.  You're right too!
And thankyou for offering to cook dinner for us!!!  I miss those dinners with friends something fierce!

What can I bring?  Green bean casserole with butter and almonds?  Home made apple pie to go with the cheese cake?  Some of that fresh Italian bread?  Or whatever you would like?  Can I come over early and help?

What are your favorite flowers because I'm bringing some for you anyway so you might as well fess up?

Looking so forward to it!! :D  :D  :D

GFN

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« Reply #190 on: April 29, 2005, 08:49:40 AM »
Mudpup,

 
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Either is great as long as you pick a good year/month/day?  :lol:

I actually have a bottle of Ripple in my liquor cabinet that dates back to about 1979 (I'm sure that was a good year for Ripple) that used to travel between me and some friends as a joke.  Can't seem to part with it, but if I had  distinguished guests such as you and the rest of the gang here, I could probably be convinced to uncork (unscrew).   :D

Don't worry, I would make plenty for everyone.  I wouldn't want that short & stocky (tall & slender) body to go wanting.

GFN

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Absolutely :!:  :!:   I always have loved the scene (well, I loved the whole movie) from "The Big Chill" where they are singing and dancing in the kitchen while preparing dinner.  That is my idea of a perfect evening with friends.

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What are your favorite flowers because I'm bringing some for you anyway so you might as well fess up?


Hmmm?  Let's see.  I would say the perfect bouquet would be one that you cut from your garden.  But if its the dead of winter in "the Great White North," I would love a bouquet of tulips.  I have them starting to bloom in my garden now and I just love the smell.  Since I wasn't living here at this time last year, I am being pleasantly surprised by the spring flowers making their presence known.

Thank you for your thoughfulness.

Thank you, Stormy, for starting this lovely exchange.  Makes me a little melancholy, but brings back many great memories. :)

Bless you all,

Brigid

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« Reply #191 on: April 29, 2005, 09:49:11 AM »
Storm! :D
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She's quiet,
how do you know? I’m not exactly quiet here am I? But in public I’m a wee mouse and you knew it!
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but very classy,
well thank you very much m’am 8) , as I sit here in sweat pants and an old T shirt of H’s, you almost make me want to take a shower :shock: (that’s blown it) :roll:
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neat artistic jewelry
this gets me, how do you know????? How??? You? Know? That is me and that’s spooky!

I was with a group of friends, well actually I’d been invited by the one friend I have and was just observing the others, quietly, when I noticed this really intelligent-looking woman looking our way. She caught my eye and made the tiniest of smiles, just an acknowledgement really, and looked away. She looks interesting and worldly I thought, I wonder what stories she could tell? She’s not interested in me, she’s got lots more to occupy her mind I bet.

She looks academic to me, but not the really eccentric can’t-dress-themselves type. More the has-more-books-than-she-can-read type. The sort of woman who would sit quietly at home and if you were observing her, you’d think she looked peaceful: but there’d be so much going on in her head, a whole interior life, not on view. She’s wearing classic but comfortable clothes, in autumn colours, has shoulder-length brownish hair, a little curly: or maybe no, she’s cut it off now and is sporting a shorter style, because she thinks it befits her ‘age’ better? (I hope not.) Men are scared of her, scared of her bright eyes, because they think she can see into their souls, including their most shameful secrets. Most of them avoid her eyes. They think they have too much to hide, how sad. I wonder if this lady has ever placed an advert in the back of the London Review of Books? Those classified ads written by the most erudite and informed literary folk in the land. They’re so funny, the ones I can understand. These made me smile, from the issue dated 21 April 2005:

“Yes, sir. I can boogie. Man. Academic. 62. Quite possibly gay. Box no 08/12”

“Ploughing the loneliest furrow. 19 LRB personals and counting. Only one reply. It was my mother telling me not to forget the bread on my way home from B&Q. Man. 51 Box no 07/06”

(These are both real. B&Q is a DIY hardware store.)

How did I get here??????? Loved the lunch Storm, hope I’m not too far out with my wonderings!


Hey, if there’s a party going on, I’m bringing crate-loads of red wine (anyone want white?) and lots of different sorts of olives in flavoured oils. Okay, I’ll stretch to making a tomato, avocado and mozzarella salad. This is making me hungry….. portia heading for the kitchen :arrow:

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« Reply #192 on: April 29, 2005, 10:39:16 AM »
P, I don't know how I knew, I don't think I was really alone yesterday. Y'all were with me somehow. God is good.

Yummy red wine... how about Grant Burges 1989 Shiraz? If we're going with something from Oz. A colleague gave me some as a gift, and I shared it out with friends in CH one Christmas - six of us, at dinner together, just a lovely time - and we lingered over it for literally hours, because it just kept doing lovelier and lovelier things as it breathed. We'd keep popping into the conversation with 'hey, try it now, it tastes of blackberries' 'wow, it's smelling like roses' etc. I am not a wine expert, but ye gods, this was a foretaste of heaven.

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« Reply #193 on: April 29, 2005, 10:44:23 AM »
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(anyone want white?)


Yes, please.  Reds give me a whopping headache. :(

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Okay, I’ll stretch to making a tomato, avocado and mozzarella salad.


Ooooh Portia, that sounds wonderful.  Maybe with a little balsamic vineagrette?  I have a ripe avocado in the kitchen that I think I'm going to have to go slice and eat all by itself right now.  My mouth is watering. :)

Dinner's at 8:00 everyone.  Arrive at 6:00 if you want to help.  You'll have to figure out how that relates to your own time zone. :? Dress is casual and plan to do some dancin' to Motown :D .

Brigid

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« Reply #194 on: April 29, 2005, 10:54:38 AM »
Brigid, I'll bring this gorgeous Gewurztraminer, it comes from Alsace, it tastes like you're drinking flowers....

can i hold big old red cat, or does he only sit on his mommy's lap? (in which case I'll hold big old red Sandy cat.)