most narcissistic comments ever

[Anonymous]

Here is a small sample from my brother's repertoire,

(Rubbing his temples) "Everyone around me is crazy", after finishing a ten minute rant.

"He doesn't owe you, you owe him" From my mom who supports him, apparently because she has to protect her defective one. This was after I had made him enough money to retire on while he vacationed around the world every year.

"You're smart, you could make money if you just got out there and hustled"  Our busy season was from May through November. Guess who was hustling from May through November and who boarded an overseas flight in May and got back in December for five years in a row.

"We are at war and I learned overseas how to win this kind of war, you do it with a whisper campaign"  Told to a friend as he was engaging in a campaign of slander against me.

I was going to post a few more but I need to go take some Tums. Maybe when the heartburn subsides I can put some more up for your reading pleasure.
As Jimmy Durante used to say, I got a million of 'em!

[October]

I've mentioned this one before, but after a particularly difficult day involving bank accounts and missing money etc:
'It's a good job that didn't happen to me; I would never have been able to cope with that' (from mum) followed by 'Yes, it's a good job it wasn't your mother.' from dad.

Also 'I'm supposed to be your mother!!!' said as an accusation, to which I replied 'Well act like it then!'.  To which she took great offence.

During a confrontation I was moving away, and she grabbed my arm and pulled me round to face her.  I said 'Don't you touch me!' and she said 'I never touched you!!'   I took a deep breath, counted to 10 and then said, 'That is a bare faced lie.'  

Also, one from dad.  'Why do you  have to think about the bad times, why not just remember the good times?'  To which I replied, 'What good times?'

Also, dad discussing his marriage to my mum, 'What if we had never met, where would you be then?'  I told him; 'Better off.'

Lol!!!!!!!!!

Oooh, and one from today.  My younger brother has bought and sent me a book.  The title is:  

REINVENTING YOUR LIFE: the Breakthrough Program to end Negative Behaviour and Feel Great Again

What I actually need is one entitled 'I am fine just as I am, thanks; I just need help believing it.', or 'If you think I am bad, you should meet my family.'  

Last one he sent me was 'Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway.'  

[Anonymous]

My father left when I was 15, and when I told him I was angry he told me I shouldn't be because "You would have left me in a few years for college anyway," and "I'm the same person I was before, just in a different context(ie. married to a woman other than my mother), so why are you having such a hard time?"  

When I first started started therapy, and told my mother I was struggling with anxiety, she said "At least I raised you to be counselable."

[Anonymous]

October:

You should send the book "Fear and Loathing in LA", by the fellow who recently committed suicide to your brother.  He might get some more "valuable" information from a fellow narc.  LOL  Patz

[Anonymous]

N statement of all time, said to me in all seriousness:

"I am perfect".

GFN

[mum]

Not sure if this is narcissistic or sexist or both:

After my saying we need to address our marital problems to my ex:

"OKAY, WHO IS HE?"

[Anonymous]

Not sure if this is narcissistic or sexist or both:

After my saying we need to address our marital problems to my ex:

"OKAY, WHO IS HE?"

I think it's Nish.

There are no marital problems.  None that could be your ex's fault or anything to do with your ex.
It has to be YOUR problem then!

You MUST be responsible.
You MUST be the one who has wrecked it all!
You MUST be involved with some other "HE".

So ok, WHO IS HE? (heehee)

GFN

[October]

October:

You should send the book "Fear and Loathing in LA", by the fellow who recently committed suicide to your brother.  He might get some more "valuable" information from a fellow narc.  LOL  Patz

Lol!!!  Funny you should say that.  When he emailed to say he had sent the book, I replied 'Shall I choose one for you?'  But he didn't reply, strangely enough.  But of course, he is not the problem.  I am.  

[onlyrentin1]

My N-H gets mad and he knows how I don't get along with my N-Mother,
so he is sure to say things about her and how I'm like her.

1. She had affairs on my Dad, ( I have never and always been faithful)


He will say I'm a Wh##e, like my mother

I'm going to make everything his fault like my mother did to my Dad.

everything I have revealed about the pain she caused my Dad, which hurts me deeply, he points out and will say I'm just like her.

All this is already painful, nothing like adding salt to the wound.
Something about being compared to someone you have no bond with
and dislike what they do. (it's one of my buttons he likes to push)

onlyrenting

[mum]

Onlyrenting, your husband has called you a w-----e?  THAT in itself is enough!  (I am indignant for you!)

[onlyrenting1]

Mum,

This kind of comments are not uncommon.,He has had worse. Some are so beyond reason. I have become numb to most of them.

I understand your feeling insulted for me, you gave me a feeling of a caring MUM, I don't have that feeling to often. Actually I have had this caring feeling more from you all here than from most of my own family. amazing.

He's immature and I see him as such. His Insults are not going to ruin my  day. it can be a challenge, I try not to go to his level. Tell him to stop not to bring my mother into it, He uses it to push my buttons.  

Thanks, I feel comforted right now. you must of hit something deep inside of me, not sure what it was, need to think on this feeling.

olyrenting

[vunil]

He will say I'm a Wh##e, like my mother

I'm going to make everything his fault like my mother did to my Dad.

everything I have revealed about the pain she caused my Dad, which hurts me deeply, he points out and will say I'm just like her.

All this is already painful, nothing like adding salt to the wound.
Something about being compared to someone you have no bond with
and dislike what they do. (it's one of my buttons he likes to push)

Jeez Louise, this is your husband?  It reminds me of that scene in The Truth about Cats and Dogs when Janine Garofolo says to Uma Thurman, after watching this man yell insults at her-- that's your BOYFRIEND?


Wow.  I am so sorry.  I don't think these are only narcissisitic comments-- they are cruel and mean comments meant to wound you on purpose.  He is so out of line that I'm sitting here completely shocked.

[onlyrenting1]

V- Thanks for your shock. It's like living near a train at first it's shocking , and before you know it the brain lets you sleep right thru it.

this is on page 1 of this thread. I guess this is his go around.

2. please forgive me, I was lying and out of line, but Satain was speaking thru me. I'm in pain and you know that's true.  

Onlyrenting

[Anonymous]

To Only:   GET OUTTA THERE, I hate this man.  Love you Patz

[Anonymous]

To only renting,
If my N didn't have me in a financial stranglehold I would send you the money right now to leave that creep.
Also I will gladly beat him up for you if you want. : ) I'm pretty big and I it would give me an outlet for my desire to beat the tar out of my own N. Besides you said he was on SSI so how hard could it be right?
Seriously, as a man, I am ashamed for my gender.
St Paul once wrote a line about someone who had done him great harm and he concluded the verse like this..."may God reward him according to his works." Ditto for Mr. Onlyrenting.

Mudpuppy