most narcissistic comments ever

[moonlight52]

Hops , I did that about ten years ago, we were alone and I told N father off good and strong he cried. I cornered him into a wall. He said then " if he knew then what he knows now abuse would not have happened"
That was ten years ago.You see all lies ,he can not be wrong about the abuse .I did tell him off but it would of been the same as yelling at a brick wall.I did confront him .The only one of his children that did.
I am stronger than I have ever been the pain has left me finally and I get to be free for me
and my dearest sweet twin brother who will always be 27.
I am a funny sad happy
Love and Light
Moon

[Hopalong]

You are a lovely warrior Moon.

You are a delight, a comfort and such an inspiration!

(((((Moon)))))

Hops

[mountainspring]

Hi Moon,

Did you feel calmer after you told him off or did it frustrate you more.

[moonlight52]

Hi MS and Hops and All ,Well that was ten years ago but things like that you do not forget .I felt sorry for him I believed every word of his pack of lies .
He made me feel guilty for confronting him and making him cry .The reason I do not try and" figger out "the minds of TRUE
destructive cruel N's is because me thinks I understand them too well ick ick ick .I do forgive AND I am not perfect but I do not live
my life looking for ways to deliberately hurt family members and then laugh about them .Time to hang with my family that are gentle.
I hope the other  ones understand there own very confused state of being.Oh HOPS if only I was a Moon warrior well maybe I am just a little.My therapist has had me paint a series of warrior shields to bring out more of the masculine side in me it was done using a lot of silver.............
Moon

[gratitude28]

Moon... so sorry for all you suffered through...glad you hollered at him...

My mother has no understanding (or fondness) for children. When my son was little and used to throw those 2 and three-year-old temper tantrums, she said maybe I should take him to the doctor and see if he was allright. Now that he is older, I stupidly said one time that he was going through a rough phase of talking back or some such thing (you know, something that lasts a few days or a week...). She says "Don't worry, once they turn 8, they turn back into humans again." She  has said this for every age my kids have passed... like an authority and as if years of a child's life can be reduced to a stage. I truly want to rage when she says things like this.

[dabwonde]

This thread is some kinda survivor.....like us perhaps?
Here are the most narcissistic comments my ex N dribbled....

"When I was younger and got everything I wanted from a woman I was dating and was through with her, I would be mean so she would hate me and leave me alone"

dear lord....how did I not see he was telling me what his intentions were for me? Or that somehow he was grown up now? I can't fathom being intentionally cruel like that at ANY age.


"I only took advantage of you in the beginning"

lol....he only stopped when he had everything he could get from me

"you brainwashed me into being bad"

"I was putting forth an honest effort to fix the relationship, you only acted like you wanted it, but in reality you just wanted more evidence for the cops and provoked me til I had to hit you again"

This is when I knew I was I was in the twilight zone, that comment followed the 4th time he physically assaulted me (out of 6). He fractured two of my ribs and I sustained a back injury that had me in 24/7 pain for 5 months. Never apologized. It was the first time I told him I had to have an apology.....as if that would help...god I was nutz

and this...

"I am not going back to those classes"(after the 2nd anger managment that his probation officer told him he had to attend) All those men had some real bad anger issues and I can't be around that"

neither could I my love.....talk about projection eh?

[BrianD]

I have a couple from the last girl I was involved with.

"He's such an asshole; now you see why I can't be with him!"
(her describing her husband who took away a cellphone from her he was paying the bills on; the one she used for 4 months to call me long distance)

"I feel like you wanted to do that more than I wanted you to"
(her response to me after I pointed out that I paid for her plane ticket to come back out here and that dumping me the day she landed without an explanation wasn't very nice)

"If I move with you to Florida, it means I wouldn't have to work, right?"
(a question she asked me when I mentioned the idea of moving back to Florida and eventually taking over my father's business)

"I can't do this!  Get the car out of the garage and go valet it!"
(her demand after it rained for 5 minutes and she didn't want to walk 100 feet to a dinner engagement.  She said the rain would ruin her hair if it started again)

[Hopalong]

Me:
My good friend (40-ish) got the news today her cancer has spread. It's bad, and there's no treatment.

NMom (95):
That's sad but I don't think mine has spread.

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Years ago:
NMom: Your classmate--his wife (22) died. She drowned.
Me: OMG. She's dead? (tearing up, shock, first time I'd lost a peer)
NMom: Well it's for the best. She had a drug problem, you know.

[dollbaby24]

Ok...i just *had* to throw this one in -

My mother is very much into metaphysical things, she is a (?!) qualified tarot reader, etc...

Many times, she has explained to me that, seeing as her star sign is capricorn, she will get 'younger', as she gets older...apparently she worried a lot, and took on a lot of adult concerns (in her head only) when she was a young girl....

[pennyplant]

I'm still trying to figure out if my mother is N or just has a lot of N-spots.

Today I was talking to my mother on the phone about her sister who recently had a lumpectomy for breast cancer and then suffered a post-op infection.   My aunt is in her seventies.

My mother can't understand why her sister won't arrange for her to come visit.  I explained everything I knew about what was going on with her health, but my mother still says, "Well, I guess she doesn't want to see ME too badly."  We have had this same conversation about three times now and my mother still thinks she is being snubbed by her sister.  I don't think that is the case at all.  She just doesn't feel good and, even in the best of times, she is kind of hard to be social with.  My mother is making it all about herself, though.

PP

[Hopalong]

Moon, hon:
Wait until you take an assertiveness training course.

You'll still be your sweet self but there will be so much more strength and confidence inside.

Hugs,
Hops

[moonlight52]

Hops I am ready to be strong now. How can I say thank you ?
nite nite

Love Moon

[Hopalong]

You do thank me Moon...all the time, I feel appreciated.But if you want to BiG thank, take that course and tell me how it is for you!
(But only if you really want to do iit for you.

Truly! That would be very meaningfu to me.

love,
Hops

[moonlight52]

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[dandylife]

"Mine are the only feelings that matter!"

At my grandmother's funeral, I said "Thank you for coming and being here for me." He said, "I didn't come for you, I came for me."

When he got pissed at me about something, he yelled, "You are not worthy to have anything of your grandmother's. SHE was a good woman."