I have avoided this post for some time, because it is not an easy thing to answer. I am sure you can all understand.
So, what are those wicked 'selfish' things I do?
Every morning when I get up I make myself a cafe au lait, very weak, and sometimes with squirty cream on top. Then I drink that before attempting to do anything else.
I like marmite crisps too. Not at the same time as the coffee, however.
I like to have nice deep bubbly baths, with candles lit in the bathroom, and a drink of lemonade that I pretend is Martini or Vodka or something exotic.
I like taking my daughter to fly her kite on the Downs.
I like walking through grass. Especially either wet grass or with hoar frost on it, so you can look back and see footprints. And I like to walk in a big circle. Same with snow.
I like being on the beach.
I like being in forests or woods.
I like painting pictures.
I like gardening, and home improvements too. Very satisfying.
I like putting my arms around my nephew (10) and telling him he is very, very special, when he says he is bad all the way through. (Memory from weekend.)
I like rescuing him from 'a fate worse than death'; ie a day at the Ngran and grandad's house.

We both laughed like mad at that idea, as I drove him away to my house instead, to help with gardening!!!
I like making gluten free foods for my daughter, and seeing her face when she realises that there is something else she can have.
I like visiting friends.
Also, reading.
And stuff like that.