How do you feel when criticized or questioned....

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I believe we should not sit by and watch it happen to somebody else.  I try to stand up when it is happening to others.  I suppsoe at one time it was kind of a sick satisfaction to watch sonebody else get it.  I know better now.  Also try to encourage the family members not to triangulate.  Not that I am having any great success.  For instance Mom gets so mad, frustrated at...(pick a brother).  I said recently you should tell them at the time it is happening.  She did agree, but will she do it.  Again I can only work with myself.