I have a drama

[bunny as guest]

Thanks again, you guys! You have made me feel soo much better. Portia, I'm glad I'm finally a human to you. Thanks for admitting how scared you were. You aren't the only one scared of me. I seem to have that effect. Anyway I'm glad I'm more real now.

October, I have fantasized many times about contacting old flames but was too scared to do it. Otherwise I would have. I don't mind that this guy contacted me, it was more how angry he was. I felt incredibly guilty like I had destroyed his life. (codeee....)

He has now said what happened to him since 1976. It was horrible, nothing but tragedy and people dying, and he has some major health problem (didn't say what it was). So I am a bit overwhelmed that I pushed for knowing this (duuhhhh). I'm going to try to be his friend if it's possible. Even that might be over my head!

Thanks everyone for being so supportive and telling me not to beat myself up.

{{{{ you guys }}}}

bunny

[Stormchild]

Bunny, sorry I'm coming in so late on this thread, I was dealing with a buncha messes and couldn't get to the board.

But I wanted to thank you for sharing your emotions with us. Crazy sounding of me to say that, maybe, based on my sharing my own a little too much, a lot of the time...  but it means a lot that you would trust us and open up to us the way you have.

I hope you are able to be friends with this fellow - his life sounds a bit like mine in terms of everyone dying - so he may be bitter, but it may  also be temporary.

Sorry I wasn't here earlier when I could have been of more use, but I am really glad to see you feeling better about this. Go bunny!

((((((((((bunny))))))))))

[write]

I'm going to try to be his friend if it's possible. Even that might be over my head!


well, you can but try, and you know all the signs now if it's getting unhealthy or damaging to yourself, and you can choose where to draw your boundaries.

I think it shows what a decent compassionate person you are to try.

Good luck (((((((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[October]

now does this mean tricky possible sociopathic
apologies that seem to be to set the person
up unfairly for future abuse..
ah to have the wisdom and discernment of the holy spirit
that teaches all things

I'm sorry.  I do not understand what you are saying, and therefore can make no meaningful (or otherwise) comment about it.

Cf thread about Language.