I love to get simple gifts from little kids, like a drawing or or something they made.
They are being genuine no games, their motives are most of the time b/c they just like you and know it's a nice thing to do
Motive we all have one for better or worse.
Porta: I know the money allows for the person to get what ever they want and sometimes that's the best way.
You don't have to worry about if they like it or not.
I’ve started to give money as a gift
Cadbury, It's so sad when you want to believe so much that b/c of kindness the Giver let you use his car but it may have been more about the control he had. I'm glad you got your own car. How sweet that must have been to hand him back the keys.
I got my own car and a lot of his involvement had to end.
Moria It's like play games with a 5 yr old, I feel like this reverse stuff works with the N. I think like this when it comes time for something I want. He wants something, don't you want it or you will be a copycat. You want something he will let you think you can have it, just to take it away.
thinking this would be something I DIDN'T want!! Ye old reverse psychology!!
I know the gifts he gives himself are always expensive and of best quality.
He being the giver of his own gifts, just the way the N likes it.
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