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Sallying Forth

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ExNgirlfriend sending me mail!
« on: August 13, 2005, 05:00:56 PM »
 :shock: I can't believe this woman, the bitchy witchy has to send me snail mail because I cut off email contact. Cost her 85¢ to send it and I'm sure she bitched about that! :lol: She always complains about spending money.

Suggestions ...
Ignore it?
Report further communication to post office?
Tell her to stop it?

I've never had an exNgirlfriend or exgirlfriend pursue the relationship after it has ended. This is a new experience for me. She's acting just like my Nmother!  :x :o :shock:
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bunny

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Re: ExNgirlfriend sending me mail!
« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2005, 06:18:42 PM »
Ignore it. If you give her ANY attention, even negative, she will be encouraged to keep contacting you.

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Re: ExNgirlfriend sending me mail!
« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2005, 06:56:28 PM »
Thanks bunny. That's exactly what I needed to hear.  :)
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Re: ExNgirlfriend sending me mail!
« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2005, 12:43:28 PM »
Hi Sallying Forth
I'm in the exact same predicament!  I get about 20 phonecalls a day, a few texts and I was getting emails since I barred them from my account.  The only thing you can do is IGNORE them.  I assume you gave her clear reasons why you were breaking up, this is all she needs.  I just hate it!  It prevents you from moving forward completely in my opinion.  I think it is important also not to read the letters.  You have done your bit.

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Re: ExNgirlfriend sending me mail!
« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2005, 06:40:57 PM »
Thankfully there was nothing written in the letter. She was relaying information to me which she thought I'd might find interesting. It was the simple fact that she thought I would like to read this information. I tore her envelope up into little, itsy, bitsy pieces and got some of my anger out. :lol:
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