I am very sure no one meant for me to feel this way....
Luv, I am glad you are able to give us the benefit of the doubt. I think there is some truth in what you say. Some of us were concerned that you might have overlooked a factor. You seem to be on top of the family history and her sister's death, so I personally didn't feel the need to point that out. Of course those are significant major factors.
As far as making you feel bad about anything, no one up here wants that. We are just trying to do and say whatever will be most helpful. At times, I know I go out on a limb because I realise that some of the most helpful things I have heard in response to my posts have not been the response I would have chosen, and sometimes are not comfortable for me to deal with. So I take a chance in responding to others if I think I see something there that no one has pointed out yet.
Obviously you are closest to the situation so you know what the real deal is. We are operating on the partial information you can relate by posting. So if we are off base up here, just chalk it up to us not having the full understanding.
Plucky
