Any statement I have made on this site regarding my brother as an N, a Narcissist or having NPD or having any type of mental disorder or problem whatsoever has been merely my personal opinion. Any such statement was never intended to be construed as a statement of fact. These opinions were not formed haphazardly, but were based on my research and observations and also on the opinion of a medical professional who has closely observed him, as well as a licensed mental health professional.
Likewise any statement I may have made regarding my brother as being deceptive, greedy or dishonest has also been a mere personal opinion.
In fact, any statement implying any negative attributes or motivations to my brother whatsoever have been my personal opinion and anyone who has construed them otherwise has done so on their own initiative.
Any statement I have made regarding my brother's actual actions have been accurate to the best of my knowledge and belief and are the facts as I know them.
Any statement I may have made regarding my intention of destroying him referred only to my intention to force him, through the legal system, to recompense me and my family for the damage he has done to us.
I chose this board in my attempt to heal from the abuse I have undergone, partly because it does not mention the word Narcissist in the title and because it therefore took me several months to find. I concluded therefore that it was highly unlikely he or anyone else I know would see any of my posts. I have in fact attempted, by using this forum, to ensure that no one either of us knows would read anything I wrote. I have gone out of my way to ensure that he was not harmed, but that I was still able to have a forum to discuss what has occurred to me and my family.
None of my posts were intended to harm him, or cause him damage in any form, but rather to help me heal from what has occured.
If I had wanted to harm him or my intentions had been malicious I would have chosen a public forum that people either of us know might reasonably be expected to visit and made sure our identities were known.
I will continue to post on this site and ask anyone reading my posts to bear in mind that my opinions of my brother are just that, mere personal opinions, and also that any relation of the facts in our lives are just that, the facts as I know them. I have posted nothing that to my knowledge is false or untrue about any person on this site.
All of the above statements should be applied to any other person I may have mentioned on this site at anytime.
mudpuppy