Dr G ..........Happy New Year!!
Because of the this web site and all of your thoughts and efforts to help those in need, my New Year will be like no other.
I have grown so much this past year because of the friends I have made here.
Without all the support from this site, this next year would not be as sweet!!
How sweet my life will be without the daily struggle of living with an N spouse.
I pray those with N's in your life are able to extract them from your life totally or to some extent.
I pray you become a person with a light of wisdom.
I pray you understand how presious you are with your big hearts and to someday take up the broken pieces of your heart to share with others who will show YOU love, grace and the mercy that you are so willing to give to others.
With my new life about to begin I promise myself not to be a co-dependant, I can now see this trait in others and will tell myself I understand now how distructive this trait can be. I have learned to be more honest about my life, not fearing the bazar reactions from N's, that I have known. I feel so free to be who I am and I like who I am, even with all my flaws. I promise to take my human flaws and cherrish them to know that I too have areas in my life that are special and benificial, one of them is a human WITH FEELINGS.
All of this has happened with lots of personal growth and help from all of YOU... Thank you everyone and Thank you Mr. G.
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