Hiya all
I let myself down and had a look at dad's websh*t again over Christmas... however I was quite interested to read this....
I don't have any Christmas stories from this year, except I did spend the day with my boating friends, who I've been to Boston with, and even into the Wash this last year. I usually just use the day to enjoy a world, void of the people who spoil it, and are sleeping off their excesses at home, leaving me to enjoy this world in peace. However more people seem to be about these days. I was also generously entertained on Christmas eve by a young Polish migrant worker, who now has her new partner and son here. Of all the people I know, it was this generous young woman who visited earlier in the year, to help me spring clean my house. If I do this myself I risk hurting myself (which in fact did happen) as I overdid it once again. So I now have a (semi) respectable house again for the first time in 10 years.
The "polish migrant worker" was staying at his, when he came to stay with us last time... in November last year. This generous woman who selfishly helped to spring clean his house.... well. The real story is that she was 8 months pregnant at the time, and didn't have anywhere to stay. His friend (her boyfriend) asked n bio dad to help out by letting her stay with him because she had no where to go. N bio dad wasn't keen but said she could stay and it would be handy for him to have someone to spring clean his house. So there she was 8 months pregnant and cleaning his house, running around after him. Her boyfriend found her somewhere else to stay while he was at ours and she had left his house when he returned. Another case of rewriting history! I feel sorry for this girl already.... another nice person that he thinks he can get something from.
I did speak to my hubby about reading his weblies but H thinks that I'm not hurting anyone and he said at least it still shows me the reason why I put no contact into place. So merry christmas and a happy new year to n bio dad.
Take care
H&H xx