He's gotten ahold of his gun

[movinon]

(&(&&(&(&(&(&(&(((MUM)))&)&)&)&)&)&)&)&)&)&)

Power sent!

And I don't blame the woman (lord knows I've done that long enough).  She's just been hoovered in like I was. 

Movinon

[mum]

Thanks, Movinon....I GOT IT!! Thank you.
You know I have this picture in my head of you as this powerful warrior woman! I can learn a lot about channeling anger from you, I think.

[Hopalong]

Wowsa, Movin!
That is a wonderful example of self-respect and self-protection while feeling vulnerable.
And so wonderful that you allowed pleasure in the event, too!

I looked at the training on your link on the other thread...can't imagine what's wrong with sharing something that's given you so much. It was very interesting and if it were very cheap and very near I'd probably go.

Congrats on your triumphant experience of loving yourself tonight.
Good GOING.

Hops

[movinon]

Mum,

powerful warrior woman

Funny you mention that...that's what I've always wanted to be like!  Thanks for the huge compliment.  I must say I had dreams about them getting up and tormenting me.  I think a lot is worked out through dreams

Hops - Thanks for the words, and yeah, it's a little expensive, but not broken down - it's equivalent to about 2 years therapy and there's a 1:1 ratio!  It's such a great weekend that the volunteers actually PAY to volunteer (and there's usually a waiting list!)  That's just my 2 cents.

Movinon

[Plucky]

Hi Movinon,
I'm glad things went fine at the ceremony.  You sound like you are doing great with a difficult situation.   I just have one thing.  Do you have to drive past his house?  Could you just avoid doing that?  Unless you have to.
Plucky

[movinon]

Plucky - No!!! I absolutely DO NOT have to drive past his house and that is counter-productive.  Just a weak moment and I immediately called my support system and made the commitment to call 10 women if I felt the urge to do it again.

Thanks for pointing that out.

Movinon

[movinon]

Well, I guess weekends are going to SUCK for a while.  The SOB stole my motorcycle last week.  I noticed it was missing on Sat. morning.  I KNOW it was him and I can't PROVE it.  It makes sense though, b/c my neighbors says he thinks it was gone by Thursday when he got back from work.  My stbxH would have been pretty upset after I didn't pay attention to him and his little gf AND after getting a call from CPS.

I suppose I could get a PI (more $$$$$$$) to have him watched b/c he's just cocky enough to show up somewhere on it.  I'm sure it's not at his house.

I reported it to the police on Sat. after I noticed and told them where I think it is.  I thought I was pretty screwed, but I noticed in the collaborative ppw, it said there is a 30-day waiting period where ALL agreements made remain in effect.  I guess the saying is true...give them enough rope and... watch 'em swing!

I will hopefully speak to my lawyer on Monday and we will come up with the best way to go about this.  I also found out that he can not have possession of a gun unless he is a US citizen, which he is NOT.  Man am I ready to get him!  I am SOOOO sick of his BS

Movinon