Thank You Pennyplant,
I felt good after reading your reply and I sensed a lesson in it for me in that you saw their beliefs and respected their intellectual/belief boundaries. I felt good expressing my "voicemoreness" when I signed their petition.
I want to pass on the following bits of info/opinion in my attempts toward achieving a manner of respectful communication:
In the book "Magical Child" author Joseph Chilton Pearce says that when a baby doesn't get safely held in mother's arms for the first two years, then that "matrix" (womb-like safe extension) is broken. The child will then spend the rest of its life seeking power to re-create as similar as possible that matrix (a safe womb-like environment) to finish that stage of development. The Latin origin word for matrix is womb. After I read this, it validated for me my understanding of one aspect of the movie trilogy Matrix. Competition after competition (wars after wars) until finally there's one man left. He has complete control over everybody (ie: mother) so he can feel safe. I know there's so much more to it but I just want to focus on the idea of matrix as womb and how this is, imo, the underlying motive for trying to control others into submission. I'm not implying here that mothers are to blame. If anyone is to "blame," it's men for not letting women feel. If women are protected and supported to feel more, then they'll offer more harmonious responses to their child and their own bodies since at this early stage they are merged together. The example given in the book comes from Africa. The researcher says she notices that babies have no diapers/pants and that there are no messes around. She asks one woman, "Where do they go to the washroom?" She answers "I take my baby to the bushes just before she needs to go." "How do you know when she needs to go?" "How do you know when you need to go?"
I'd like to know if when readers read this, if they felt respected? Or do I still come across as preachy? I often can't tell how I come across to others. Did you like it? Was it helpful?
Love,
Anansi