A rock and a hard place!

[Plucky]

She said to me : "Sorry mommy for getting you upset"  At that moment a  light bulb went off in my head. I told her that she could not make me angry. I chose to get angry and that people are responsible for their own feelings. Always remember that.

Thank you Liberty,
I agree your children are lucky.I am going to use this line myself.  My son sounds similar and I sometimes taken by surprise at his complex feelings about some situations.
Plucky

[Hopalong]

Lib,

What an outstanding mother!

Hops