(Ewww, Write, what a nasty remark he made. Yikers. You have such APLOMB, woman!)
Thanks, GS! I'm very pleased about the job but worried about how I'll hold up physically (back pain). It all happened almost at once. I found out the disability would not be approved (by the university, since my funds were ending anyway...not by the insurer).
I had done some freelance work for a local businessperson who has a startup business for products I admire (materially and philosophically). Anyway, he mentioned to me at a recent meeting that he'd need to hire a 3rd employee since things are growing. I said, no, you need to hire me, and you'll get marketing writing and website work and design direction all at once! A week later I met with him and his wife and we had a great talk and he said, you're hired. (It's a big cut in pay and benefits from the university, but I am so glad to be out of there I don't care.) It'll be living verrrrrrrrrrrry simply to get by, but that's okay.
And he does know all about my back and is quite kind, I think. I don't think he's a "softie" but he said one of the most important things to him was to run his business according to his spiritual values. He actually said, my most important thing in business is that I want people to feel loved and not stressed.
(By contrast to several previous employers I've known, whose mantra appeared to be, work as hard as possible until you're one step from dead, and then work harder.) So I'm very grateful. We'll see how it all shakes out. There are always adjustments and I hope to be happy and flexible and I really really hope it's my until-retirement solution.
Had a nice time at the potluck, too. Mom decided she wanted to sleep all day so I took her gentleman friend (she cradle-robs, he's only 93) and we had a great time.

He's sort of like an adopted relative, and actually a brilliant man. Lives in a time warp but it's fascinating to listen to him. (He quotes long verses in Latin and has half of Gilbert and Sullivan memorized.)
My paperwork lurks. But I'm not doing it tonight, I don't think. No good reason. badbadbadbadbad
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