type of narcisst that can get your head spinnin

[axa]

I think t hey are so good at denying what most people call reality.  That is the stuff that makes your head spin......... like what is this person talking about..... I think a good indication of the crazy stuff is when your brain on the one hand recalls the reality of the situation and another part is stunned like its been hit with a hammer and words get stuck in your mouth because it is so off the wall.  Remember this is not about someone having a different opinion to you this is someone twisting facts, adding smoke and mirrors so that you feel like you have been thrown against a wall.  All part of the game.

axa

[moonlight52]

axa

This is sadly true I still to this day do not understand how such a person gets so adept at at the end of a conversation about something they have done that hurt you .
They are saying "never happened" and then expect you to say you are sorry for the mean thing they did....

There are times I have hurt others feeling and as quickly as my mind recognized it I say sorry or talk  it over......
And if you make the big mistake of defending what you meant  it all ways it gets twisted around ..............got to give it them that they are good really good.

I am not angry just I finally see this and it is amazing ....I believe they just are not comfortable with intimacy and are not capable of deep emotion .
Every thing is buried so deep.And relationships are surface only.

I am not an expert But now that I am out of trance I know when I am being manipulated.
And at this point I do not know what rationalization my foo gives to each other about my behavior (self esteem)

I am sure I am no fun anymore.

[axa]

Hi Moon,

They hate intimacy.  I think part of it is because to have real intimacy you have to be REAL.  I too was much more "fun" when I did not challenge...... think I am now very very boring...... roll on more boring.


axa

[CB123]

Moon,

I think you are fun.  I want to be invited to the next mashed potato war. 

CB

[moonlight52]

 axa and CB ,

I think not feeling comfortable with intimacy maybe true????

And CB I am going to be making the mashed potatoes on Christmas Eve want to come ?

We can make it like that Gallagher dude (COMEDIAN) and he smashed watermelons any one remember him??????

We are going "up the mountain" out of state where the love is......

moon howlin at the moon

so much love

there is much too much high expectations at the Holidays we will all be fine.....

[Hopalong]

Anybody remember in Terms of Endearment when the Nicholson character was blowing off the Shirley MacLaine character with some namby-pamby excuse and she looked at him and just said:
"BLAH BLAH BLAH ... BLAH.

I loved that. Like the ultimate line that would work with Ns...in hindsight!

Hops