Bored

[axa]

Hope it is okay if I am on a bit of a roll posting today.  Need to get some stuff out of me as I will not be able to go online later.

today I felt so angry.........could not think why, all of a sudden and it has to do with boredom.  When I feel bored and do not have plans the rage comes up.  I guess it is there all the time but it is only with the boredom do I feel it.  This is progress for me in some ways in that normally I would go from boredom to depression.  Have not been there for years thankfully.  So thanks for being here and for helping me work out this stuff.

love

axa

[Dazed1]

Hi Axa,

quick response here cuz I gotta run, but, I read that sometimes, when we feel anger, that anger may represent fear and hurt.  So, may be helpful to sit and ask yourself "do I feel hurt, fear and if so, why"? 

Maybe you feel hurt because you have no one to make plans with and maybe that makes you feel afraid to be alone.

If so, what can you do about it?  Perhaps enjoy your own company, enjoy being your own best friend.  Also, get yourself out and meet people:  join a group, take a class,  go to the movies, etc.  Or do something enjoyable by yourself like watch a movie at home, take a luxurious bath, etc.

Hope this helps and post as much as you want,

love,
dazed

[Hopalong]

Hi CB,
You can reactivate GS's NOT-boring thread anytime...you know?
Just post a new remark on it...

I've had the same thought...that was SUCH a provocative thread for me,
and I do feel it's not mined out.

see you there!
Hops