Developing Radar to Alert Against N's.

[Bones]

Bones with her N-Detector on      (no smiley thingy for an N-Detector....... so will that do?!)

Today, I had to go drop some items off the ex church lady friend I told you about .... who is most likely an N

and had on my N-Detector ......

So I graciously .... tentatively ...... accepted her kind offer of a coffee ........... but, it had a price!!

So we sit across the table and she made light comments .... then followed ..... one Projection after another!!

To which I responded ... "do you realise that you are referring to yourself, not me?"

Her eyes went black and huge ....... and she sat silent staring at me.

The silence was not golden, it was now getting uncomfortable....

And so I graciously, politely, thanked her for my coffee, and left.

She stood in her porch ........... staring as I cordially waved goodbye.

Genuinely, do feel a compassion for this lost soul.

But, she cannot hurt me anymore .... I simply won't permit it.

Leah

No problem, Leah!

I can just imagine that the expression on that N's face was priceless!

Bones

[Leah]

Please keep posting. You are bringing good, fresh information here, it's interesting, it's helpful, it's needed. I do wish you had been spared the things that brought you here... but - glad you found this place.

(((((((( Stormchild ))))))))

Thank you for your kind acceptance and encouragement.

God bless you.

Leah xx

[Bones]

Has anyone else observed N's on some of the court shows?  For example, today's Judge Joe Brown had a real doozy of a case with a defendant 15-year-old and her mother.

Bones

[reallyME]

Bones,

I have seen N's on court tv shows too.  I love watching those shows, because, due to the fact that the judge has the final say in things, the N's don't usually win over the innocent victims.  Sometimes the judge is the only one who can back an N into a corner and give back somewhat of a voice to the voiceless ones.

~Laura

[Bones]

I admit it's fun to watch N's get their come-uppance from a judge while rooting for the underdog who has been victimized.  That one case I was referring to yesterday, the 15-year-old had snatched a relative's car, without permission, because she REFUSED to walk the two blocks to a fast food joint and she wanted her food NOW.  (The car owner had refused to drive her the two blocks.)  During this kid's "joy ride", she destroyed THREE other cars in the neighborhood and attempted to tell the judge that the "vehicle wrecked itself and she wasn't paying for anything".  Nmom also chimed in, announcing she was "paying for NOTHING".  Judge Joe Brown had a LOT to say to the 15-year-old defendant and her mother.  The case took up the entire 30 minutes of the show!  The plaintiff won the maximum amount.

Bones

[BonesMS]

I thought I would share a follow-up about an N that I encountered at my previous job with the hypothermia shelter.  I think I had previously mentioned this one individual who attempted to follow me around with self-centered, self-absorbed drivel when I attempted to discuss empathy with her.

Well, things finally came to a head when this N locked horns with another N in a public restroom.  The N I encountered at work tended to behave as if she is a "Princess" and she decided to lay claim to the public restroom, telling everyone else that it was now her territory and was off-limits to everyone else.  The second N "invaded" anyway because she needed to use the facilities.  N#1 attempted to block N#2 from entering the restroom and N#2 pushed her out of the way.

N#1 claimed she was "physically assaulted" and demanded that she be allowed to call the police and file a report.  By this point, all of the staff had reached their limits because she had plucked everyone's final nerve.  The executive director told her, "Before you are allowed to return, you WILL get a psych eval!"  She, of course, refused and SHE NEVER CAME BACK!!!!!  (Thank God!)

As for N#2, she attempted to manipulate the system on the final night of the program and I told her, "Tough!  Either you accept what the program offers, AS-IS, or you get NOTHING!"  She got NOTHING and she has no sympathy from me.

Bones

[Gaining Strength]

So good to see you Bones!!!  how are you graduate????

What up good with you?  your friend, GS

[Stormchild]

I thought I would share a follow-up about an N that I encountered at my previous job with the hypothermia shelter.  I think I had previously mentioned this one individual who attempted to follow me around with self-centered, self-absorbed drivel when I attempted to discuss empathy with her.

Well, things finally came to a head when this N locked horns with another N in a public restroom.  The N I encountered at work tended to behave as if she is a "Princess" and she decided to lay claim to the public restroom, telling everyone else that it was now her territory and was off-limits to everyone else.  The second N "invaded" anyway because she needed to use the facilities.  N#1 attempted to block N#2 from entering the restroom and N#2 pushed her out of the way.

N#1 claimed she was "physically assaulted" and demanded that she be allowed to call the police and file a report.  By this point, all of the staff had reached their limits because she had plucked everyone's final nerve.  The executive director told her, "Before you are allowed to return, you WILL get a psych eval!"  She, of course, refused and SHE NEVER CAME BACK!!!!!  (Thank God!)

As for N#2, she attempted to manipulate the system on the final night of the program and I told her, "Tough!  Either you accept what the program offers, AS-IS, or you get NOTHING!"  She got NOTHING and she has no sympathy from me.

Bones

Hey Bones! What a story... honestly, I think I know where N #1 went, though, she's working with me these days.

You can have her back any time you like

[axa]

They are spirit killers

This just jumped off the screen at me.  I felt this all the time with XN like he was trying to steal my spirit.  He hated my joy and energy and when I would become deflated and low he would seem to get quite high as if he was feeding off of me.  Yuch....... gives me the creeps just to remember.

axa

[BonesMS]

So good to see you Bones!!!  how are you graduate????

What up good with you?  your friend, GS

Thanks, GS.

I've just received word from the university that I have officially completed my masters degree.  I'm in the process of getting my financial situation settled so that I can proceed with the commencement stuff.  (Still job hunting, though.)

Bones

[BonesMS]

I thought I would share a follow-up about an N that I encountered at my previous job with the hypothermia shelter.  I think I had previously mentioned this one individual who attempted to follow me around with self-centered, self-absorbed drivel when I attempted to discuss empathy with her.

Well, things finally came to a head when this N locked horns with another N in a public restroom.  The N I encountered at work tended to behave as if she is a "Princess" and she decided to lay claim to the public restroom, telling everyone else that it was now her territory and was off-limits to everyone else.  The second N "invaded" anyway because she needed to use the facilities.  N#1 attempted to block N#2 from entering the restroom and N#2 pushed her out of the way.

N#1 claimed she was "physically assaulted" and demanded that she be allowed to call the police and file a report.  By this point, all of the staff had reached their limits because she had plucked everyone's final nerve.  The executive director told her, "Before you are allowed to return, you WILL get a psych eval!"  She, of course, refused and SHE NEVER CAME BACK!!!!!  (Thank God!)

As for N#2, she attempted to manipulate the system on the final night of the program and I told her, "Tough!  Either you accept what the program offers, AS-IS, or you get NOTHING!"  She got NOTHING and she has no sympathy from me.

Bones

Hey Bones! What a story... honestly, I think I know where N #1 went, though, she's working with me these days.

You can have her back any time you like

I honestly believe that N#1 belongs in a psych ward with all of her delusions of grandeur!   

Bones

[BonesMS]

They are spirit killers

This just jumped off the screen at me.  I felt this all the time with XN like he was trying to steal my spirit.  He hated my joy and energy and when I would become deflated and low he would seem to get quite high as if he was feeding off of me.  Yuch....... gives me the creeps just to remember.

axa

My Nmother was the same way.

Bones

[CB123]

I've just received word from the university that I have officially completed my masters degree.

Yay, Bones!  What an accomplishment!  I really appreciate the amount of work that went into what you have done. 

CB

[BonesMS]

I've just received word from the university that I have officially completed my masters degree.

Yay, Bones!  What an accomplishment!  I really appreciate the amount of work that went into what you have done. 

CB

Thanks, CB.

Bones

[Stormchild]

I've just received word from the university that I have officially completed my masters degree.

Hotcha hotcha hotcha! WOO WOOO WOOHOO!!

Happy dance happy dance happy dance happy dance YEEEEEEEEEEE-HAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!