Advice please

[gratitude28]

(((((((((((((((((((((((Axa))))))))))))))))))))

Just a hug and no advice... I am far from an expert here... and so many have given you great counsel...

You have come so far.

Love, Beth

[axa]

Naked madrigal dancing..........new one on me!!!! I am very fond of madrigals but the jiggly bits would not look too dignfied.  Makes me smile at the thought of it though.

Great advice everyone........ I have the letter written, in an envelope but feel no need to send it.  I just want the stupid creep out of my life and maybe, fingers and everything else crossed, he might stay away now.  I am full of gratitude that I am not dealing with him on a daily basis and that is where my focus is now. 

I have been reading Stalking the Soul and it just hits home with me all the time.  I know he has not changed and will not and if it is revenge I want I guess letting the two of them dance their twisted dance is the best I can do.  I actually feel sorry for his xwife when I read the book as I know she is now hoovering on the pedestal and will get the hatred in the near future.  I just want my life and to hell with them.

Ok I am predictable and do not muddy the waters for him but I am doing ok and that is all that matters to me right now.......... great to vent and get all the anger out here.

Much appreciated.

axa

[Hopalong]

Oooh lovely, A.

If there's to be a ritual envelope-burning, can I come?
Nekkid?

Don't do madrigals but I got the macarena down.

Hops

[lighter]

Lighter,

I sure appreciate your wisdom.  Your kids are so lucky to have you in their corner. 

(The naked madrigal singing is a little weird, but hey...could be fun!  )

CB

The naked madrigal dancing, and chanting is, optional, lol; ) 

[lighter]

Oooh lovely, A.

If there's to be a ritual envelope-burning, can I come?
Nekkid?

Don't do madrigals but I got the macarena down.

Hops

::Wiping coffee off keyboard and face::  You should warn a girl before using "Nekkid" and "Macarena" in a sentence, lol.

[lighter]

Axa:

 
There isn't any bouncing involved in my madrigal dancing and everything looks good in candle and/or moonlight anyways. 
(It's a slow twirley thing and it's perfectly fine if you choose to keep a bit of clothing on.)
Choose music Celtic, smile and dance!
I feel so much better when I dance. 
I know I'm winning bc I'm HAPPY!

The important this is to feel you've really left your N and that situation behind. 
Personally, I think everyone should experience a traditional burning of the envelope ritua,l at least once: ) 

[axa]

How about doing Riverdance, plenty of bashing of noisy shoes on the stage.  Everyone from voiceless standing in a straight line, those of us with big saggy girls bits might risk a black eye or two....... what an image.

Axa

[Hopalong]

 

Ohhh, the best medicine...

Hops

[lighter]

Naked Riverdancing. 






Ouch.

[debkor]

Oh man!  I'll never get to blacken my eyes unless I go buy some then I'll probably break my nose and explode them.

Or I could stand with the guys and dance! 

Deb

[lighter]

Oh man!  I'll never get to blacken my eyes unless I go buy some then I'll probably break my nose and explode them.

Or I could stand with the guys and dance! 

Deb

Ummmm.....
you could run a dump truck over today's implants and they won't break, lol. 

I'd be more concerned over the poor skin responsible for holding the things up and in place, than a black eye. 

[mudpuppy]

Geez, I think I'm going to have nightmares after reading this last page.

mud

[lighter]

Geez, I think I'm going to have nightmares after reading this last page.

mud

Oh great. 

Now I'm picturing Mud riverdancing naked: / 

Ouch.

Again.

[Hopalong]

(Don't worry about Mud, he grows figs.)

Remember, we're doomed if we scare away our Resident Representative of Positive Masculinity!

Hops

[lighter]

(Don't worry about Mud, he grows figs.)

Remember, we're doomed if we scare away our Resident Representative of Positive Masculinity!

Hops

I know it'll take more than nekkid dancin talk......




 to scare Mud.