I have always been really close to both of them .My H has been trying to turn them against me since when they were little-- but it never worked until a few days ago.
My H is livid at me b/c I have gotten strong( lol ). My H is really, really angry about this..My sons have witnessed everything. When my H had the chair over my head, Golden told me that he was standing there thinking that he may have to "beat him up" . This attitude (of being abusive to me)from Golden is new .
For some reason,now, Golden has decided to try to abuse me ..He was seeing if he could be abusive to me like his father is However, it is not going to happen. I have asked him to apologize for his fresh attitude( several times) and he won't.
He is a biology major in college.He wants to go to medical school. Maybe, this is part of the 'modeling" that he is doing,with his father. My older son is halfway through a bachelors degree and he wants to go into business. He has worked his way up from the counter to a Manager in a fast food restaurant. He is working and going to school.. They are sweet people. For some reason, Golden decided that he wanted to try to abuse me
The older and I see reality. We talk about N's and other 'real issues. The younger will not face reality. The older and I talk about everything.We were just talking about betrayal in life and how it happens to everyone.
It was nice to be honest with someone who you love and who loves you.
Love Ami