I keep tellign myself 'I can cope' then something else happens and floors me out of proportion....last night I took Seroquel, first time in months but I had all these conversations going on in my head and it's a sign of maybe rising mania. Though I'm not talking fast or having any erratic thoughts and I haven't acted on any of the thoughts...I think I do manage it better than ever.
I have fallen in love with the Dave Ramsey radio show.I'll check it out!
http://www.daveramsey.com/radio/home/I'm sorry you dealing with this and hope that you meeting will be successfulthe man was very smug on the phone, I will be assertive but the problem is any N-type behaviour is very upsetting now.
I want to step away, if it's going to be an ongoing saga I will step away, pay what I need to and complain in writing at a distance.
Ex pointed out last night that I am not good at setting boundaries with people on these things ( ironic huh! he is being tremendously supportive right now though so I'll take his good behavour when I can get it....

I think he's pleased with me, I helped him out during a recent illness )
In some ways we are living in a society of Ns and those of us here suffer from those effects even more poignantly than others.exactly GS, you hit it perfectly.
that Church Guy is being so odd. he's hurting, I understand, he is afraid same as me. The difference is I am not acting out with him, in fact I am trying really hard not to. I talked to the therapist yesterday about it and said whatever has happened to either of us is in the past is not the responsibility of the other to take care of. I feel like my boundaries are pretty clear on this, or I'll end up with another relationship of 'but I told you I had problems....'
We all have problems!
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an ugly fact of American life...America is hard like this, so superficially beautiful and wonderful but scratch the surface and there is a lot of unpleasantness.
There are problems in England but of course I recognised them from within, also I don't remember the phenomenon of someone smiling whilst they bite your hand off!

Money has troubled me for a while, and I have been workign through my issues around it, but these deeper things about US society boil down to a more fundamental problem of mine:
you can trust no one.I think that's why it triggers me so much.
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we'll take whatever Write we get!Thanks Hops.
I don't behave too badly these days whatever happens, which I guess is pretty good for a bipolar!
I just made a plate of 'chip butties' ( sandwiches of fries ) no butter of course! but malt vinegar and ketchup.
I'm a couple of days behind in my Simple Abundance Daybook but Sarah Breathnach thinks we need comfort food, and I'll concur.
She wrote 'even if your actual childhood was abyssmal...'
So many of us here, it was wasn't it. Leaving a huge gap in our psyche which we plug up as best we can, then occasionally all the padding falls off and exposes a chronic weeping wound.
Think I'll leave mine exposed to air for a while, covering it up an't helping!
~W