Confrontating an Abuser

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Mine didn't get confronted much, Axa.  He didn't need to cry very often: ( 

He did act very wounded and hurt whenever he was faced with something very big that he couldn't cover up easily.  He'd pull out the croc tears and say how devastated it was to be unjustly accused.... blah blah blah.... hard to keep the pressure on a pathetic sniveling cry baby who asks for pity, outright. 

Whatever in the world did yours do with a roll of toilet paper in his hand all the time?  Did he really carry it about, like a nasty little doll..... or..... something?

[axa]

Used it to mop up his fake tears!!!!!  Oh that snivelling baby will I ever forget it!  This is the guy who told me he NEVER does anything he does not want to do and then would plead his disgusting behaviour - obsessivly watching porn, was not his fault it was a demon who had possessed him!!! Of course he was not responsible.

axa

[lighter]

Mine said he had devils inside him too... .referring to sexual addiction.

I think he's truly the devil himself.  I think he doesn't have one little connection to anyone in his life.  We're all just people to be dominated and stone from.  He steals sympathy and that makes him  feel good.  Being viewed as a victim makes him  feel good. 

Subjugating people makes him feel good. 

WInning and stealing things he's not entitled to feels good to him. 

At some point he'll get too old to prey on women the way he does.  He'll probably put a gun in his mouth from boredom in the end. 

I just read THE SOCIOPATH NEXT DOOR.  Got quite a bit out of it, actually.  It really does suck to be a sociopath.  We're much better off than they are and our lives have a rich texture and depth that they'll never know, much less understand. 

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I wouldn't say "great" book but it's quick and if you get a copy that's not missing too many pages..... it's a good read; )

ps  whatever happened to the lady who had the baby with the lazy N who quit working and wouldn't even look at the child?  My copy was missing that part: /