diagnosing

[Lupita]

Amazing was that Hopalong was the only one to recognize that I was apologizing not because I felt I did something wrong, but because I had fear. I was so much afraid that you guys would reject me or abandon me. She sensed that immediately.

I feel very well today. I really think that this was a learning experience for me. Very important. If i can control that, I will succeed an any job, any friendship, any family, anywhere.

[Ami]

Dear Lupita,
  You had a huge breakthrough,yesterday. I am very,very happy for you. The main one who had COURAGE was you. You had the courage to be angry. That is a BIG thing with mother's like ours.
I have never 'seen" you so 'real" before, Lupita.
  What is wonderful about the board,is that with ALL these voices, someone always understands right where we are. It is so beautiful and so healing                    Love  Ami
 

[towrite]

No disrespect intended, Lup. "Honey" and other terms of endearment come so naturally to me as southern as I am.

Towrite.

[lighter]

You won't be abandoned here, Lupita. 

I promise.

Amazing was that Hopalong was the only one to recognize that I was apologizing not because I felt I did something wrong, but because I had fear. I was so much afraid that you guys would reject me or abandon me. She sensed that immediately.

I feel very well today. I really think that this was a learning experience for me. Very important. If i can control that, I will succeed an any job, any friendship, any family, anywhere.

[teartracks]

Dear Lupita,

No abandonment from teartracks!  I've always had the greatest respect for your voice here.

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