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lighter

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Re: Body and Body Image
« Reply #30 on: August 08, 2007, 10:07:04 PM »
It seems a man has wandered into the sleepover.  Is he here to deliver pizzas?   :lol:



Oh dear....

This isn't going to turn into one of those awful movies where the delivering guy asks if someone ordered a pizza then takes off his clothes....

::Chicka Boom Boom..... BoOOW music playing unflatteringly in the background:::.....

 is it, lol?


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« Reply #31 on: August 08, 2007, 11:16:40 PM »
Light,


(lol)  Now where are my dollar bills?  Do you take Debit Cards Mudd?

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« Reply #32 on: August 09, 2007, 01:18:08 AM »
Light,


(lol)  Now where are my dollar bills?  Do you take Debit Cards Mudd?

Love
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::groan::

Poor Mud.... now I have a Six foot something in a red speedo locked in my brain.....

::banging head on keyboard::

And it won't come out, lol!!




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« Reply #33 on: August 09, 2007, 04:59:38 AM »
Write,

Macclesfield IS an unlikely place for a fabric shop...but I saw it listed online, so visited it anyway. It's called The Fent Shop, and looks like it's already closed down, from the outside! Inside, it's like an Aladdin's cave, and the staff are very keen.

I've only been there once, but I bought so much because I'd never been there before, and couldn't believe my luck. When I got to the till, I found they don't take credit cards. HUH? So I had to use the last scrapings of my cash and my husband's to pay for what I'd chosen (and that they'd already cut  :D). We came out with two huge bags of fabric, and about £1.50 in change :D :D :D

I learnt a bit of dressmaking at school (about two years' worth of classes, once a week), and did a bit of clothes-making once I left school, till I was about twenty. Then I lost interest till four years ago, when I got really sick and tires of all the rubbish that's in the shops. All the clothes now seem to be 'upsized', so what used to be a size 10 (size 6 in the US), now would fit a size 14. So, as I'm a 10, I just can't get anything to fit.

I started making things again, and found that I really enjoyed it.

It's not difficult, and there are some really good patterns released each season, just like in the shops, if you want to be 'trendy'. If you want more classic stuff, there are vintage pattern sites for patterns going back to the 1920's, like www.oldpatterns.com.

www.sewingpatterns.com has the biggest range of current pattern companies' patterns, if you want to browse the whole world!

I think everyone should make their own clothes...women always used to!! It's so much more satisfying, and there's no chance you'll turn up somewhere wearing the same as someone else! I'm sure you can do it, write. You'd love it.

OK, I'll shut up now.

Janet

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Re: Body and Body Image
« Reply #34 on: August 09, 2007, 10:22:26 AM »
Dear Mrs. Mud,

Mr. Mud is on a restricted diet now. He can have six ounces of lean protein at every meal but the rest has to be veggies and fruits and whole grains. He can't have anything that comes out of a box. He can eat lots of fish.

You understand, dear.  No sauces.

And Mr. Mud has decided he never liked desserts anyway...

He's going to go chop wood now.

Hops, HSRN (honorary self-registered nurse)
"That'll do, pig, that'll do."

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« Reply #35 on: August 09, 2007, 11:16:10 AM »
Ahhhh... mud. And you could eat tuna fish for one day and lose ten pounds... that's how men are :)

Yes, my body image has been a mess since childhood. At five I got chubby. I think this was b/c my mother was preggo w/my sis and ignored me... so she went around whispering (but I heard) about how I was so chubby and she just didn't know what to do.... I stole food as a kid - anything I wasn't allowed to have... I was miserable as a child. As a teen, I starved myself and got fairly thin - but it was never enough b/c mother always compared herself (yes, you are thin... but MY legs are nicer - that sort of thing). Became bulimic... Lost weight while in Russia... (no food - lots of exercise). Now I am living nicely. I have replaced my food with healthier choices (so much easier to do here in America) and have been eating lots of veggies, whole grains, etc. Walk a few miles most days. Am very frustrated b/c I have been at the gym, swimming or walking for 6 months and still NO change. So... think I will try Weight Watchers as it has worked in the past. I know I need to limit my food. Unfortunately, some of it IS metabolism... my son is nine and has gotten a bit chubby in spite of playing/doing sports anywhere from 2 - 5 hours a day. He has had to change his diet to lose a few pounds for football. Fortunately, he knows he is great the way he is and it is just a health change and to meet a requirement for the team. He is so funny - loves his "12 pack".

Thanks for the open talk and allowing me to complain here. I am trying to be positive - I am successful in 3D life. My daughter thinks I am "beautiful
 and that I am some kind of work out queen. lol.
Love, Beth
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« Reply #36 on: August 09, 2007, 01:14:36 PM »
I guess it's a sign of the times that I wasn't looking at Mud-the-Stud stripping off to demonstrate his er keg but thinking 'wonder what kind of pizzas he's brought....'

 :D

Am very frustrated b/c I have been at the gym, swimming or walking for 6 months and still NO change.

I got stuck like this a couple of years ago Beth and turned out one of my meds had broken my thyroid; once I started taking thyroxin the weight dropped off pretty quickly until I met an equilibrium again.

I am sure you are beautiful. One of our British Actresses Dawn French is gorgeous and she's bigger than I am and loves herself. Maybe that's the key to projecting innerbeauty- loving yourself, 'warts and all'?

And I love being fit and healthy even if I don't look like a model.

He can't have anything that comes out of a box.

thoughts return to pizza: more for me then....

 :lol:

I think everyone should make their own clothes...women always used to!! It's so much more satisfying, and there's no chance you'll turn up somewhere wearing the same as someone else! I'm sure you can do it, write. You'd love it.

OK, I'll shut up now.


no, keep talking. I think it's a great idea and I am making the leap of faith right now by mentally deciding where to put my sewing table in the new place!

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« Reply #37 on: August 09, 2007, 02:00:43 PM »
Write,

OK, if you *are* going to encourage me!

Have you got a sewing machine yet, or are you going to buy a new one?
I bought several in the past few years, looking for the 'perfect' one (but not too expensive) and I think I've got that now, so, any advice needed, and I'll bore the pants off you about how you need to get one with needleup/down, DC motor for control at slow speeds, one-step buttonhole...

I'm off to do some more sewing :D

Janet

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« Reply #38 on: August 09, 2007, 04:36:34 PM »
The wonderful, genius, insightful Virginia Satir taught me that I have to love what's inside my body before I can treat the outside with respect.
"An unexamined life is a wasted life."
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« Reply #39 on: August 09, 2007, 08:26:37 PM »
The wonderful, genius, insightful Virginia Satir taught me that I have to love what's inside my body before I can treat the outside with respect.

Dear Towrite,  It's so simple... and yet not easy :) 

This concept used to present quite a dilemma to me -
To respect and value the inner person and allow that to be worked through to the exterior...
...... or to deny self and identify with Christ -   that was my question.

I had often felt that these two principles were in direct competition, until my focus was drawn toward the fact that every human being alive is made in the image of God and to be respected as a unique creation. And I realized... that includes me :)

Thank you for this, towrite.

Love,
Hope

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« Reply #40 on: August 09, 2007, 09:28:29 PM »
I'm 4' 11" 180 somethin lbs, and I honestly like myself, though I don't like the belly that droops over.  I have tried and tried to lose weight, but I have hypothyroidism and it works against me all the way.  I also get hypoglycemic and have to run for the typical stand-by of peanutbutter and milk in order to stop shaking.  When you have those "shakes" of your body, you usually just care about putting food into it as fast as you can get some...it feels like you want to just DIE during those types of attacks!~

I think i'm pretty in spite of my weight.  The only real thing I work at keeping away is the dreaded "double chin."  It is a family trait that all the family on my mother's side has had.  When I see the chin doubling, I lay off the fried foods and sugars and my face thins again.

I am pretty confident inside myself, so my weight, although I'd prefer it to be less, doesn't hold me back from dressing nice and putting my best foot forward.  I have a bold, choleric type personality so I feel like I can hang with the "best of em" in the business world, and earn the same amount of respect as anyone else.

Kudos to the wonderul person God created in each of US!~

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« Reply #41 on: August 09, 2007, 10:19:22 PM »
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.... now I have a Six foot something in a red speedo locked in my brain.....


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I wasn't looking at Mud-the-Stud stripping off

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In fact, I wish everyone would run around the beach naked......


Girls are gross.

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« Reply #42 on: August 09, 2007, 11:30:41 PM »
That is so cute-- Mud.---- so simple                                                     
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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« Reply #43 on: August 10, 2007, 03:04:44 AM »
Lol. How did this thread get to be about sex and stripping? You girls are so funny.

Mudpuppy reminded me of how much I have learned from men.


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« Reply #44 on: August 10, 2007, 08:51:02 AM »
Since mud joined us at this sleepover, I think we should paint his toenails.

OK, Laura, you made me realize one thing, I don't have the double chin and I am working hard not to get it. I do like that on my face :)

Love, Beth
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