Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

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It took you long enough(lol).but you learned, Right Bones?                              Love    Ami

Thanks, Ami.

I told boyfriend if he's interested in the car, he can have as I don't want anything to do with it.  I don't care to have any dealings with the flaming N any more than I want to deal with Ndoofus.

Bones

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To give an example of what the Flaming N has done....years ago, she had been engaged to be married.  Her future sister-in-law became ill with leukemia.  Her fiance', who was very close to his sister, asked the Flaming N to donate blood to help save her life.  (Apparently, she was a match.)  The Flaming N refused.  Her future sister-in-law died and her fiance' broke off the engagement.  (The Flaming N is not dating anyone now.)  Given her attitude, I want no connection with her at all.

Bones

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Bonesy, Good For You!!!

You are no one to trifle with, and life is too short for Doofusses (?) and Flaming Ns!!!

Love,

Changing

[BonesMS]

Bonesy, Good For You!!!

You are no one to trifle with, and life is too short for Doofusses (?) and Flaming Ns!!!

Love,

Changing

Thanks, Changing!

Bones

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I don't think I will EVER understand Ns.

Bones

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Maybe, eventually, Ndoofus will get the message.

Bones

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I saw something on TV, Tuesday afternoon, that just CHILLED me to the bone!!!!  This Nmother was one of the WORST I had ever seen and I cannot even call her a mother.  She was more of a MONSTER!  She blithely admitted to sexually abusing her own 5-year-old daughter and also attempted to sell her child's body as part of child pornography.  (This woman has been sentenced to 9 to 20 years for what she did to her child.)  At one point, during the interview, the interviewer asked her:  "If your daughter were standing in front of you, right now, what would you say to her about what you did?"  This cold-faced monster replied:  "Nothing.  I'M THE VICTIM HERE BECAUSE THE POLICE ARE HOMEWRECKERS!"  (She made me feel physically ill!)

Bones

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The poor child- I hope she has a relative that loves her, instead of going into foster care. She deserves a break in life.

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The poor child- I hope she has a relative that loves her, instead of going into foster care. She deserves a break in life.

I'm hoping that child is in a safe and loving home and I'm also hoping that the N-Monster rots in @#$!

Bones

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After working a late shift last night and not getting home from work until the wee hours this morning, I managed to sleep until noon.  Shortly after I got up and started getting ready to head back to work, etc., my phone rings.  GUESS WHO??????  NDOOFUS!!!!  "Oh-h-h-h-h-h-h!!!!  I assumed........." and continued to blather mindlessly.  Kept telling her "No" to whatever.  She finally got the message that I did not want to talk and hung up.  Sheesh!!!!

Bones

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NDoofus claims she misses me.

I don't!

Bones

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Hi Bones.
Something I observed during the yard sale that really has me puzzled.  At one point, while Nfriend was sitting with a plate of food in her lap, a yellow jacket started buzzing around her.  Having been stung by yellow jackets myself, I didn't want to see anyone else stung.  Those little buggers are NASTY!!!  I commented that there was a yellow jacket hovering around her plate of food.  Any other person with half a brain would have looked at the plate to notice the wasp.  Nfriend gives me the glassy-eyed stare and goes:  "Huh?  Wha...???" then looks everywhere else EXCEPT down at her plate of food where the yellow jacket is sitting!!!!!  Completely oblivious!!!!!  All I could do was shake my head and figure:  "Idiot!  If you want to get stung, go ahead and be my guest!  I've done my duty!"

Bones

Oh my gosh this is my N sister too. It's amazing how alike they are sometimes.
Your thread is for inspiring. Wishing you a future of peace from your N's.   seasons

[BonesMS]

Hi Bones.
Something I observed during the yard sale that really has me puzzled.  At one point, while Nfriend was sitting with a plate of food in her lap, a yellow jacket started buzzing around her.  Having been stung by yellow jackets myself, I didn't want to see anyone else stung.  Those little buggers are NASTY!!!  I commented that there was a yellow jacket hovering around her plate of food.  Any other person with half a brain would have looked at the plate to notice the wasp.  Nfriend gives me the glassy-eyed stare and goes:  "Huh?  Wha...???" then looks everywhere else EXCEPT down at her plate of food where the yellow jacket is sitting!!!!!  Completely oblivious!!!!!  All I could do was shake my head and figure:  "Idiot!  If you want to get stung, go ahead and be my guest!  I've done my duty!"

Bones

Oh my gosh this is my N sister too. It's amazing how alike they are sometimes.
Your thread is for inspiring. Wishing you a future of peace from your N's.   seasons

Thanks, Seasons.

I was half-way expecting NDoofus to do a repeat performance of last year, waiting til the last minute to announce an invitation to a Halloween party.  I made myself even more scarce so she would get the message that "No means NO"!  After last year's mess, I didn't want anything to do with a repeat performance!

Bones

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Just had a thought in connection with my job and realized that I have encountered a few Ns calling the Hotline for whatever.

If any Ns you know threaten to call Child Protective Services on you if you refuse to do as they dictate, there's a good chance that the call will go nowhere.  A few weeks ago, I received a call demanding that CPS investigate someone.  Because it was after the daytime office had closed, the calls I receive are supposed to be for emergencies only.  I took down the caller's name, caller's phone number, the name of the child involved, the age/birthdate of the child, then.....things got really WIERD!!!!

When I asked for the address of where the child lives, which CPS has to have in order to be able to investigate, the caller responds:  "He's somewhere in (large city), it's YOUR job to find him!"  (The thought that hit my brain was "What the F?!?")  I explained that CPS does not have the resources to search every home in (large city) to find this child.  That's when this caller started SCREAMING at me:  "He's being EDUCATIONALLY neglected and I DEMAND that you DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS IMMEDIATELY!!!!!"  (By this point, I'm thinking to myself:  "Oh @#$!  I'm dealing with a FLAMING N on this call!")  I tried to politely and calmly explain that CPS does not have the resources to (a) search (large city) to locate a child at an unknown address and (b) investigate educational issues.  Suggested she contact either the child's school or the county board of education.  She screamed louder and DEMANDED to speak with my supervisor.  (As it happened, I turned on the speaker feature of my phone and my supervisor heard for himself the way she was acting while listening to what I was saying.)  My supervisor indicated to me to transfer to call to him and he proceeded to explain what CPS can do and what CPS can't do.  I could tell from his reactions that she was screaming orders and demands at him!  When she couldn't get the answers she wanted from my supervisor, she hung up on him. 

Sheesh!!!

Bones

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Just got another email from NDoofus and realized that she still has a couple of my DVDs that I need to get back from her.  It also just occurred to me, with the holidays coming up, I'm halfway expect to get "flooded" with e-mails and phone calls from her while she dithers around.  I guess I'll have to deal with the situation one day at a time until the holidays are over.

Bones